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Cruising towards Christmas and the New Year - it's the December Flylady thread.

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CotswoldStrife · 30/11/2016 09:58

Ho, ho, ho - welcome to the December Flylady thread. We'll be following the Flylady method and enforcing order on our houses. Feel free to join in. The monthly focus for December is pampering Xmas Grin

I'll be posting links to the daily missions, daily focus and the zone cleaning - don't worry about the detailed zone cleaning if you haven't already decluttered, Flylady recommends decluttering first.

You can probably already tell my personal level of dedication to the internet, not the house as I've looked up the Christmas smileys specially. No washing up was done in the making of this post.

I'll post the first December links tonight!

OP posts:
BlueEyeshadow · 21/12/2016 16:24

Flowers Zoo

Stilllivinginazoo · 21/12/2016 19:31

Tadas
Try Go ice skatefail,fully booked by online ticketsHmm
Visit Santa (suspect last time.sobs)
Bit gift shopping
Fed n water Zoolets
Physio/dental apps fir Zoolets
I clean hall whilst dp hoover stairs and landing
Wash kitchen floor
Bins empty

I've had a 30min nap today, other than that been awake since 1am on 20th.up since 3am that day.I amazed I still don't feel sleepy at all.just weary.hope everyone's doing OK.xx

foxessocks · 21/12/2016 19:42

zoo I'm so sorry

Sweepingchange · 21/12/2016 19:47

It's probably the shock and adrenalin keeping you going Still. Take it steady Flowers

Newchick · 21/12/2016 20:05

Zoo keep a sofa handy to collapse into if/when adrenalin wears off... take care Flowers

CotswoldStrife · 22/12/2016 00:13

Hope you manage to get some sleep tonight zoo, may take a while for it all to sink in.

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CotswoldStrife · 22/12/2016 00:15

The daily summary for Thursday (also available on the Flylady website at flight plan which should update automatically each day.

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Baby-step no 22 - keep building your control journal

We are in Zone 4 this week: the master bedroom and en-suite if applicable

Spend 15 mins decluttering in Zone 4.

When you have finished decluttering, the detailed cleaning list (if you are at that stage) for Zone 4 is here

Mission for Thursday dust the boudoir

The daily focus for Thursday is: errand day

The monthly habit for December is pampering!

Current Super Cruise Christmas mission

OP posts:
Stilllivinginazoo · 22/12/2016 05:03

Oooh.for once I going to be on trend what ment be doing as a)need do something with my room today and b)need pick up last of presents!!
Had 7hrs,which is very good by my standards of sleep and am up and with itSmile
Time to sort front room which is descending into chaos!!

Afreshstartplease · 22/12/2016 09:01

Good morning all

zoo how is it you seem to be the one making the most progress with all you have going on!

So far today all DC are fed, half are dressed. Suppose I should dress the rest of us

Muppetslikecoco · 22/12/2016 09:05

Zoo I'm glad you managed to get some sleep.

DP has a chest infection so I went to the chemist at Sainsbury's last night to pick up his antibiotics. When I get in, ready to crash I see the landlord has put a note through the door, he's coming over today or tomorrow. Cue me spending 3 hours scrubbing the house. So my tada list is pretty ridiculous. I do feel like if Flylady will help me keep it this way now and I'm no longer dreading sorting out the bedrooms.

PurpleDaisies · 22/12/2016 09:12

I've had a fairly productive few days. The house is now Christmas-ified and I've finished shopping apart from food which I'm getting today. Dh's family arrive today so I need to do a bit of cleaning in the guest room.

Your landlord sounds a nightmare muppets. Don't they have to give you reasonable notice that they're coming round?

To do
Christmas food shop
Bake cake
Make soup from manky parsnips
Clean guest room inc bathroom
Finish cards and post them
Arrange test drive for tomorrow
Wrap some presents

Muppetslikecoco · 22/12/2016 10:10

Purple The short notice isn't ideal but they're nice people and on the whole we're very lucky with them.

Afreshstartplease · 22/12/2016 10:29

If my landlord gave that much notice at bloody Christmas I would freak and probably lie and say we are away until after new year

Muppetslikecoco · 22/12/2016 11:40

The letter said I've got a key so if you're not about I'm happy to just let myself in. It's for fire alarms though so I would be a fool to put it off.

Afreshstartplease · 22/12/2016 11:58

Cheeky sod Shock

knittingwithnettles · 22/12/2016 18:11

Zoo glad you had some sleep, and hope arrangements for your Dad will go smoothly, so many decisions to make, it will feel like you are on red alert for a long time. Thanks

haven't done much today, really, just a lot of laundry and driving kids to visit my sis's new house, and drop off some stuff (more surreptious decluttering) I am getting more and more fond of letting stuff go, it is getting a bit obsessive (dh is beginning to watch me like a hawk in case I sneak something else out when he is not looking) I gave her some blow up mattresses and he said, You are getting those back aren't you? (I don't really mind if we don't, quite frankly not in mood for camping in December, which is only real use I can see for them, so the longer SHE has them the better Hmm One more vacancy for other stuff I actually use and need! Ditto our 5th tablecloth, which I've lent her...I don't really need it...but Dh wouldn't let me actually give it to her.

Life is simpler since some food as been delivered, cottage pie tonight, but I have to still mash potatoes and cook the mince (which was delivered via a meat box scheme) Dh has hit on ingenious idea of getting lazy teens out of house by making them buy food, otherwise there "you are not getting meals cooked for you" so we reserved the potato buying for ds1, and the red cabbage apple buying for ds2. Ds1 woke up very late this morning.

Dcs playing scrabble with their dad, a rare break from screens, apart from visiting cousins and potato buying. Dd has been out all day shopping and meeting friends in town, now she is putting her new cheapie curtains from B &Q special offer, white jacquard effect up and learning the secrets of how to pull rufflette tape and not stand on an revolving office chair at a window aargh!!! First lesson, always use a stepladder when trying to reach something high up.

knittingwithnettles · 22/12/2016 18:24

I've avoided thinking about Christmas. So much that I forgot I had bought ds1 some presents...still had a sinister feeling I needed to go and find him something jazzy. Probably might be best to look at the pile properly and identify gaps Hmm needs a bright jumper, thin to wear under cool jacket, he is a bit too old for hoodies now.

So list to do:
make red cabbage and apple
buy rest of ingredients for beef olive stuffing (have beef)
plant out camellias against bare wintry fence or stick them at the back in pots (more likely)
wrap presents for younger nephews and nieces and deliver to my mum's house (this may fall off list, the delivery bit as it is far away)
deliver cards locally
make a christmas dessert of some kind...research for Christmas Eve dinner and Christmas Day - buy trifle sponges etc, chocolate, cream, rasberries, custard, christmas pudding
iron christmas tablecloth
decorate advent candle holder with greenery
buy christmas flowers?

done
bought some lightbulbs
bought two new unbroken bedside lamps
bought camellia plants
new paper lampshades to replace greasy ones in kitchen
more method cleaning products
new mop
decluttered some more clothes and sewing materials
instant lunch (sent kids out to buy sandwiches for themselves and do errands)

Stilllivinginazoo · 22/12/2016 18:27

Nice to hear kids playing games rather gaming(peers whistfully upstairs as him Xbox drifts down from D's room)
I've decide I can't stop or will crack and I can't as zoolets need a good Xmas
Ta das
Wash bath
Wipe sink
Bleach lav
Wash kitchen floor
Fed cats
Fed Zoolets
Town-got last Xmas gifts
Spent near 5hrs muck out my room.ruthless decluttering I've accumulated 5 binbags rubbish and 2, of recycling!!
I am sad as I'd stack load books in a cornerand cos it's a mess without radiator on they went mouldy
That will teach Me keep on top of things.it amazes Mr how much "I keep that in case" stuff has accumulated in my room.I can get always round bed and see floor.first time in a very long time
Quite pleased self

Sweepingchange · 22/12/2016 19:05

Well done Zoo! I'm so glad that you got some sleep and I'm amazed by everything you have achieved today whilst grieving Flowers. In circumstances such as these, it is a blessing to have dc/Zoolets for whom one has to keep going. Do take it steady though Flowers

Muppets hope your dp is feeling better. Sorry to hear about landlord's extremely poor timing!

Wow Knitting you certainly have the decluttering bug! I must follow in your footsteps. Determined to get rid of all unnecessary junk in this house in the NY. Congratulations on lightening the load! And how lovely about the camelias! Hope your dd didn't come to any serious harm wrangling with the rufflette on high!

Good luck with all the guests Purple. Some of mine are arriving tomorrow and some on Christmas day itself. Parnsip soup is my favourite!

Extravagant wing flaps to Cotswold Blue Honu Afreshstart Toostressy Whoknows Newchick Celeste Cag and everyone else.

As for Christmas prep:
washed and dried more sofa covers
wrote a load of cards yesterday (local ones) and posted them
got my hair cut but haven't quite managed to dye it yet so will look like an old grey mare for Christmas Grin
did veg and fruit shop
stayed up until the early hours wrestling with rock hard almond paste; ended up just covering the tops of the cakes and not the sides because it was so impossible to roll out.

Had a cheery morning putting up all the decorations:
gathering in holly and ivy from garden
sticking up cards
setting up tree
decorating mantelpiece
sorting out sideboard
setting up nativity scene in fireplace.

(just need to put baubles on tree now, hang angel above creche and decs are finished)

Had a not so cheery and rather draining afternoon visiting dd's teachers (a few more meetings tomorrow). As anticipated, she has basically failed most of her exams. All the teachers said that her being ill at exam time didn't really make much difference and that she seems very passive and disengaged in class Sad and that she is in danger of failing obligatory state exam which happens in all schools across the country end of second year of secondary. January term will be her last chance basically. We've tried understanding. We've tried stern. We've tried encouraging. I really don't know what to do for the best any more frankly [rubs knuckles in to eye sockets].

Encountered Ostend fish man on way home and bought cod, so that is now baking in oven (felt we could all benefit from some nourishing brain food).

Tonight: ice tops of cakes (making one extra for a friend).

Tomorrow: mad mass bed-making and supervising handy-man replacing dog-gate. Cooking for guests. Present-wrapping. Last final local cards (to deliver on foot). A few presents to deliver locally.

Keep going everybody!

Stilllivinginazoo · 22/12/2016 19:57

sc the zoolets are keeping me upright. Dd2 has been in Copenhagen at Xmas markets. I'd said we wait til comes home(went Mon,returns tonight)and inform her dad so he could tell her when she got home(we aren't tog n she's staying him at present whilst on uni break)I asked my sis to remind ev1 dd1 away n doesn't know n not put on social media.her son post on fb last night my paps deadSad
She saw it this morning.posts been removed now,but damage was done(sighs and pinch's fingers to sides nose)her dad text me and said age will ring me once lands.I really don't want that conversation tonight,heyho

I can't stop pop upstairs and admiring my roomXmas Grin

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 22/12/2016 20:08

Oh zoo, it is such a stressful time for you all. If you can, please try to take 5 mins or so for yourself each day (that sounds so patronising but hope it makes sense).

SC, I can't pretend to have any advise as my DC are so much younger. Has your DD said why she's disengaged or is it typical teenage stuff? Knitting, I am also inawe of your decluttering!

Hello to everyone else!

Ta da:-
Both DC asleep
DH has done home bleugh
Tea is planned ready meal
Got some information for my assignment at work today
Presents given to nursery and childminder. Feel a bit guilty as DD2 got cards from other children and we didn't give any out - I just ran out of time.
Phoned DM to ask if she could sort Xmas turkey out (they are coming to us) as have failed to order on time Xmas Blush.

To do:-
Laundry
Put away a few toys
5 mins decluttering
Night off studying as must get some Xmas bits done
Online food order - essential as it comes tomorrow
Before bed routine
Put away nursery bags etc from today
If time, write some cards

TooStressyForMyOwnGood · 22/12/2016 20:09

Oh, also to do:-
Reply to various texts
Chase direct debit thing again Xmas Angry

Sweepingchange · 22/12/2016 20:34

Zoo will join you presto pronto in the naughty corner, just as soon as I have iced the cakes. I am dog tired but have to keep going as they must set overnight (sorry, shouldn't be whinging over such a trivial matter when you are going through hell). What a horrible shock for your dd2 to find out about her grandpa that way. I hope she is as ok as can be in the circumstances Flowers.

Thanks Toostressy it's complicated! A combination of the usual teenage thing, plus learning in two langs not your own, plus the whole of the education system is very negative here. They have a "perfect" child in mind and compare every other child to it. It's very rigorous but its also dry and old fashioned and very fact based; no original thought encouraged! The children are presented with the info, and it is the pupil's responsibility to learn it. Full stop. It is a mismatch for dd who is very dreamy and imaginative and is enthused by ideas. Also, she is the only pupil in her class whose parents don't spk French at home, so her vocab is still quite child-like. No getting around it though, she needs to apply herself in a much more committed way. The fees of the international schools are out of our reach so there isn't really any other choice!

I wouldn't feel guilty about the children and the cards btw; some do, some don't and no-one minds either way I don't think! And hurrah for mothers bearing turkeys!

Right, I'm off to ice cakes. This is the one time of the year when I give everyone in the queue at the chemist's a laugh by asking for glycerine. It comes in a small brown old fashioned medicine bottle. (They use it for medicinal purposes here; something to do with constipation I think Grin Grin)

WhoKn0wsWhereTheMistletoes · 22/12/2016 20:34

Evening all,

Zoo - keeping busy at the moment sounds like the right thing for you, I hope your social media woes have not done too much harm. I got cross when a well meaning relative posted stuff about my extremely private and anti-FB Dad when he was in hospital last year Sad.

We also have a parent in hospital at the moment, DMIL has had surgery this week and recovery is proving extremely tough, DH is going to have to make a 100 mile dash to visit in the morning (we were planning to wait for her to be home, but I think that might be longer than we had hoped Sad). With Christmas traffic that's not going to be much fun.

Knitting - you are inspiring! I need some of your decluttering mojo! I do declutter quite a bit, but it just creeps back in again, it seems nature abhors a vacuum in our house at least. I have taken some small steps in organisation rather than decluttering this week, bought two of those clear over door hanging things with loads of small pockets for the hall and understairs cupboard doors as I was tearing my hair out with gloves/hats/shinpads/gumshields/dayglo vests for cycling all over the hall.

Got to go, darts to watch, back later.

Sweepingchange · 22/12/2016 20:38

Wave to Whoknows

I'd forgotten you were in to darts (as well as PA!)

I'm so sorry to hear about your mil and that yoru dh has such a stressful journey tomorrow Flowers. I hopes her condition improves soon Flowers