Cats my body is definitely saying that enough is enough. I needed more time to recover from the bug I had last weekend and, with various commitments, I haven't had it.
I am going to say, "Sorry, I can't." this week to everything apart from the essentials. ie I will do the basics and ferry the dcs but that is about it. I don't want to go into the hols run down and our hols start in less than 2 weeks.
As for dh's gift, the only things he wants are really, really expensive things. eg the bl*dy sound bar of the famous bl*dy sound bar incident of bonus 2012 
I should point out that he used half of that bonus to pay his share of my birthday camera so I cannot really raise the issue, nor would I want to 
Fortunately he did like the bag of sweets I got him from Lidl - they are the sort you get in France, our nearest equivalent being a Fruitella, although they are not really like Fruitellas.
We have just watched Tyrannosaur. Not for the faint hearted. I feel like I have been through a mangle. It was brilliant though. Really, really moving and shocking but somehow uplifting too. It also gave me a chance for a major bubble which I suspect has done me the power of good. 