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Oxbridge applications 2023 mutual support thread

889 replies

Riverpebble · 02/11/2022 22:05

A new, friendly thread.

OP posts:
Azure · 29/11/2022 09:42

Scottishsummer · 29/11/2022 09:36

Azure - thinking of you very much. This was us until yesterday afternoon, when DD got interview invite. The college has FOUR days of interviews running until Thursday pm (beyond the timescale given on the subject website) and all the invites are staggered according to the respective days. So if there is nothing on TSR definitely do NOT give up hope. Good luck!

Thanks for the reassurance. Well done and good luck to your DD on her interview.

Azure · 29/11/2022 09:44

Good luck to those taking assessments this week.

Riverpebble · 29/11/2022 09:47

Good luck to all with interviews.

We do not want to hear tomorrow as it's his 18th birthday so we want news today or Thursday

OP posts:
Azure · 29/11/2022 11:59

Interview invite just came through for DS; so pleased for him. I had just needed a little more patience!

juicy0 · 29/11/2022 12:01

Fantastic news @Azure

WarrenRabbit · 29/11/2022 12:21

Yes! Asked to interview at Oxford.

The long term, driven, brightest kid of the year has had a no from Cambridge.

It's going to be rocky for a few months friendship wise. This kid has never handled second place well and this was the big dream. So much so, that why my DD didn't even consider Cambridge, looking to avoid a clash.

We've already heard several reasons why DDs picked an easier option and the classic I'm surprised you are wasting a slot!

FlyingSquid · 29/11/2022 13:06

WarrenRabbit · 29/11/2022 12:21

Yes! Asked to interview at Oxford.

The long term, driven, brightest kid of the year has had a no from Cambridge.

It's going to be rocky for a few months friendship wise. This kid has never handled second place well and this was the big dream. So much so, that why my DD didn't even consider Cambridge, looking to avoid a clash.

We've already heard several reasons why DDs picked an easier option and the classic I'm surprised you are wasting a slot!

Ouch.

Two years ago, our DC had comments along the lines of 'What, you got an offer when Alex didn't?'

We were possibly somewhat guilty of it ourselves. An equally bright older sibling and cousin both tried Oxbridge and were redirected, so we'd spent the previous weeks/months saying soothingly, 'Well, it's a long shot for anyone, of course, but if you don't try...' and then weren't quite sure how to react to an actual offer.

Good luck to your DD!

WarrenRabbit · 29/11/2022 13:14

I like the phrase 'redirected'. I actually think the friend who applied to Cambridge will do better without the tutorial system. She's brilliant at anything involving memory, absorbing huge amounts of knowledge. I think she'd struggle with the quick fire tutorial teaching.

I wish her well, she's had years of being the yardstick against which everyone else in a class measures themselves against. Its not been easy for her and has understandably made her anxious and competitive.

FlyingSquid · 29/11/2022 13:56

DD is currently flagging in 8th Week with three hours of tutorials this afternoon and an essay overdue, and is inclined to say ‘Whyyyyyy?’ whenever I mention anyone applying in this round.

It’s certainly… intense.

EmmaStone · 29/11/2022 14:15

DD just got an interview offer from Somerville for one of the Classics-based degrees. She's over the moon. Thanks for all the support on this thread!

goodbyestranger · 29/11/2022 14:19

I watched consecutive cohorts at school go through this process for well over a decade. There were some quite unpleasant comments when a particular boy got into Oxford to read Maths. In fact a number of his peers were incredulous: he was laid back, brilliant at football, very sociable - not at all the stereotype of a top Maths student. We were all absolutely delighted when we heard that he'd graduated top of his year having had a great few years at Oxford :)

I remember another student at school who was always top of absolutely everything, the oldest of a large clever family, very beautiful, not wildly popular with other girls because she was too much of a Queen Bee. She was rejected after her Oxford interview, which sent shock waves through the sixth form block. To her great credit she took the rejection with extraordinary grace (and then got into Cambridge the following year for a different subject, NatSci). (The comment about beauty was a factor in her supreme confidence and Queen Beeness, before I get jumped on)

goodbyestranger · 29/11/2022 14:24

EmmaStone pottery, coins and obscure English poems from obscure periods in history.

FlyingSquid · 29/11/2022 14:34

DD is deeply unlikely to graduate top of her cohort, but even clinging on in there by her fingertips, her personal development over the past year has been striking. Some of that is because there is 'nowhere to hide' (her phrase) in the Oxford system.

Meery · 29/11/2022 15:33

Sadly we are out, Oxford rejection came through this morning. Now finding my mama brave, it will all work out, face for when dd comes home from school.

FlyingSquid · 29/11/2022 15:38

Sorry to hear that, Meery (despite my ambivalence about Oxbridge). We've been on both sides of it, and it will work out.

In our cousin's case, being turned down for a very theory-heavy course meant a re-evaluation and a change to a much more practical one that has been better in the long run.

Jeelba · 29/11/2022 15:40

My grandson has just texted to say he has been invited to an interview at Hertford College on the 13th (so plenty of notice) - for Archaeology and Anthropology. Mocks next week (I always think they are better in January myself - when I was teaching the two-year A level, we always had them then) after driving test tomorrow, two Christmas concerts at the weekend and an indexing job to complete. All good preparation for Oxford life, should he get a place!

Firefox1066 · 29/11/2022 16:19

Congrats @Azure

Karmacat · 29/11/2022 16:19

Has anyone got an interview date at Queens. We were told two weeks ago that DS had an interview and they would tell us the date before last Friday, we haven't heard anything yet, seems strange.

OnePlusOneEquals · 29/11/2022 17:49

Interview stage reached!!

sparkles18 · 29/11/2022 18:15

Karmacat · 29/11/2022 16:19

Has anyone got an interview date at Queens. We were told two weeks ago that DS had an interview and they would tell us the date before last Friday, we haven't heard anything yet, seems strange.

My son is in the same boat with St Hilda's. He has got the date and time for his second interview though!

EmmaStone · 29/11/2022 19:07

goodbyestranger · 29/11/2022 14:24

EmmaStone pottery, coins and obscure English poems from obscure periods in history.

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

whiteroseredrose · 29/11/2022 19:39

Keeping fingers crossed for OnePlusOneEquals. Blooming awful wait.

whiteroseredrose · 29/11/2022 19:40

OnePlusOneEquals · 29/11/2022 17:49

Interview stage reached!!

Just seen this! Excellent news!!!

OnePlusOneEquals · 29/11/2022 20:16

Thank you @whiteroseredrose any news for you? I’m glad the offer came through today….I’m not good at this waiting malarkey 🤣

whiteroseredrose · 29/11/2022 20:40

@OnePlusOneEquals I'm just loitering as I was in this position a few years ago. DS graduated this year but I'm still interested in Physics applicants. He loved the course.

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