Thank you for the kind words. I agree with @fishingeagle that I am not certain a gap year is the right way forward for her. She is doing one of the politics variations, and at the moment the plan is to do that, then a law conversion before changing the world. I think a great degree from Leeds will serve her as well as many others, and so if she waits, she may find herself a year delayed, and at only a marginally better uni. The course has lots of flexibility and we think the city will suit her well.
Although it is a worry that she doesn't have an insurance (Leeds was meant to be the insurance!) there will always be clearance, or next year. She had a (very) part time job till last week, and they would bite her hand off to have her more full time if she does end up taking a year out. Hopefully by August results day, we will have a better understanding of both her recent ADHD diagnosis, and the other health issue and so will be able to take a better call all round.
She will bounce back quickly I am sure. She came down last night to show me online a dress that she keeps going back to for her leavers ball, and has now ordered it. It is absolutely gorgeous, so if it fits she will look stunning. She may also have ordered a pair of outrageous heels that's she has been looking at on the Oxfam site. If they fit she will be taller than DH (and my lovely DF who is coming) at the ball, which will be hilarious.
It is not as if there is anything at all wrong with Leeds. The other DDs both have friends there who have done brilliantly and are having a great time. It is a pity that we could not get to the offer holders day, but that is what it is, and the online version will have to suffice. She is a gym bunny and serious swimmer and the facilities there are great, and free for first years.
I will just keep repeating "it will all be fine".