Mumsneedwine, I do understand your position, I really do, and I also have empathy with this year's cohort of school leavers/progressors. But the fact remains that there are entirely too many 9's and A's, which are usually only awarded, as you know, on the moderated curve of entire population cohort. Any teacher or parent may think that their children are top of the year, and they may well be, but against other schools they may well not be, and that is what has been missed this year. It is for this reason, many schools have never predict 9's or A's before this year, as you can't reasonably make that assessment, unless you know how everyone else is going to do. Anyway, moving on.....
Let's get going for this term, and get those UCAS in. Personally we are going to put down those universities which DD wants regardless, and see how the offers unfold. If it means deferring or re-applying, so be it, we will handle that when we come to it.
Just as an aside, does anyone know how many offers are NOT made to applicants in any standard year? I don't know of anyone who has not been offered a place on any of their choices on their applications (other than vets and medics), so I am not sure of how common it is?