What a shame, Kingscote! I’d better get DS to check if Southampton offer holder day is still on.
I went with DS to open day at Manchester (excuse to see DS1 who moved there in September.) The uni buildings are ‘city’ but pretty much all together without other buildings in with them, so it felt like an academic campus. Some of the older buildings were lovely, (as your DH will know) some of the modern ones were impressive too. (Loved the very new Turing maths building.) We saw the accommodation at Fallowfield. Very similar to elsewhere, mixture of more traditional and modern. This was a couple of miles away so a bus journey or cycle ride.
It’s a big university, but was a lot nicer than I expected.