Baytree, Movednorth and others waiting and worrying... sorry to hear and mn hugs.
I got chatting to a couple yesterday who told me their DD studied Psychology at Bristol before deciding she wanted to study medicine, she went to Warwick post grad and loved it, she loves her job too. Her mother said, 'not everyone does and I make a point of telling everyone, she earns £12.80 per hour, which is about what my neighbour pays her cleaner'. She was still very proud and happy her daughter chose to follow her dreams and be a doctor, even though it was the longer route to it, just a bit frustrated about the pay!
My sons hand surgeon studied Neuroscience before post grad medicine and is now one of London's top hand surgeons.
Determination and belief, and maybe some frantic phone calls for clearing places.