Hi gang,
Welcome Ponymum - you sound like you have a lot on your plate so don't go too hard on yourself.
Weight loss post baby I found very hard as you are permanently exhausted and that tends to make one reach for the carbs....
I've had a sausage sandwich for lunch but no butter. Had a lot of bread today as have been tired and in a rush.
Vinegar - sorry about your gain but don't let that big fat hairy diet monster put you off your stride.
You can do this. You just need to get focussed. Maybe a bit more planning? Do you often know what you're having for your main meals or is it all a bit figure it out along the way?
I used to think I wasn't a planner. For ages I thought dieting worked better when I was spontaneous.
Now I find out that like Pretty Woman, I am a planner, I'm definitely a planner.
Trite Truism alert: If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.
Bon voyage for the weekend on your river of reduced calories