Anyone else have NO sex drive?

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Just wondering if it was only me. I am 42.

no sex drive since first child 9 years ago too...just had mirena fitted ..dont know why i bother but brill contraception ..!!!!bled like a heavy period fo r 6weeks...!!!! if there was any sex drive its def gone for good now!! im 42 and wonder if thats it? cup of tea and tv is sooooo much more exciting..causes BIG rows in our house which makes me wonder whether the marriage is over as we only bicker constantly about bloody sex!!!aaargghh!!!!

43 & no sex drive whatsoever - not even hunks on TV do it for me. Wouldn't care if I never did it again - except DH would.

I've been with dh nearly 30 years. After the first flush(es) we had slightly different requirements. I was always after a slightly illicit thrill, dh more for regularity. But he was very understanding. Dh then became very ill and, looking back the first symptom was him suddenly not being interested. I'm now a combination of low sex drive and thinking I should give it a go but scared it'll make dh ill again. Sometimes I do go diy coz it's always the wrong time of day. The illicit bit again I s'pose.

I don't have any . Mumsnet usually makes me feel like a freak with their rampant sex lives!

I dont think we talk enough about how it actually feels to not have a libido. Its soul destroying.