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Fag Free for 2005....Join us..We are doing GREAT!!!!!!!!!

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charliecat · 19/02/2005 21:57

Hello girls....

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whymummy · 08/03/2005 09:25

you will be fine dropinthe,i felt just like you,everytime i gave up i felt depressed as if i'd lost my best friend,paaaathethic!!! don't think of it as a sacrifice otherwise you will feel sorry for yourself and be more tempted to smoke again,think of it as something great you are doing for your family,what also helped me was taking one day at a time,i kept thinking "it's ok,it doesn't have to be forever,if you can't get through today buy some tomorrow" i kept saying that in my head and before i knew it it started to get much easier

minkmama · 08/03/2005 11:37

welcome dropinthe! some of us have been here ages and some of us more recent but you quickly get to know each other cos we're a fun bunch well done on making the decision! mumsnet is great for boosting your morale and this thread particularly so - if you have probs with the acronyms, scroll up and click acronyms and it will give you a whole list of them to decipher!

WM, no i can't speak spanish but one of my best friends is from zaragoza so i what i know comes from her and her sister! how long have you lived here?

oh dear, ds2 is crying, gotta go!

whymummy · 08/03/2005 11:58

hi minkmama
13 years!!! lol,long time!! i've got family in zaragoza and my cousin lives in london too.your friend should take you to El Pilar great fiesta in zaragoza,i went once and didn't sleep for 2 whole days,brilliant fun

minkmama · 08/03/2005 13:55

i'll leave the boys with you then

whymummy · 08/03/2005 14:10

no problema

charliecat · 08/03/2005 20:15

Hello everyone including newcomers I am moving house as a nonsmoker and i am so so so ashamed that the rest of family, (that will be my other half and my mum then) are walking round with dog ends hanging out. I really am
Never the less.
www.whyquit.com is the site for mental help with the quitting thing as well as coming here and typing away like mad.
Im gonna have to temporarily give my cat to my mum and i keep crying at the thought of him getting lost/run over. He knows we are moving and is coming after us in the car/van everytime we go
My kids arent coping too well with the upheaval either but i know it will be ok in the long run.
I am so so so so so so pleased with myself here. Yesterday was so stressful, and i thought, yes today has been a shit day, but bugger it, i didnt smoke, im winning x 1000

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fionagib · 08/03/2005 20:53

GOOD LUCK CHARLIE CAT!!!! (with your move I mean). You'll be really missed here. And mm, sorry to hear you've had a stressy time, you sound in good spirits tho...

Hello newcomers!!!

Folks am very sorry to say I have had a few fags at the weekend. Was having a bad time at home, rows and stuff, all okay now and no fags today but of course the cravings are immense and not even lozzies can appease them. Have started running again so hope that helps.

After all this time I thought I was over ciggies. The weird thing is I was ENJOYING being a non smoker and hardly missing them at all.

WHAT AN IDIOT!

minkmama · 08/03/2005 22:44

but you're back here and that's what counts fg good to know you're running again, i'm feeling really unhealthy and unfit so will mentally run with you if that's okay

poor you and your weekend...you know i completely understand, how many times have i fallen off the wagon for the same reason?! as long as we don't dig that hole any further and climb right out then eventually we'll get there!

cc, it's so easy to forget about pets and upheaval! hope kitty isn't too traumatised and i'm sure the girls will settle soon enough. children just don't like change do they, but at least you know you'll be in a 'better' (re: noisy neighbours) place. at least the frantic clearing out is keeping you busy! when are you moving, on monday?

whymummy, CAT me and i'll send you pics of my little devils (but not before i take you up on your offer )

minkmama · 08/03/2005 22:45

how are you doing dropinthe? did i mention nicotinell lozenges earlier? they're great and taste of mint!

serah · 08/03/2005 23:12

Hi everyone n good luck in giving up the weed. Just wanted to tell you my experience... just less than a year ago, my dad had to go in for chemo and I promised him that as he would no doubt keep his chin up during treatment, I would pack in smoking (which he always hated me doing) to "keep him company" as it were.

I started reading a book called "The easy way to give up smoking" by Allen Carr. Its a "planned" read as Allen encourages you to smoke during the read... a week before my dad went into hospital, I found out I was pregnant. I admit that I did not "increase reading speed" but a week later, the day my dad was admitted to hospital I had my last ever cigarette.

Don't believe me when I say it was my last ever? Read the book. If you want to stop, read the book. If you don't believe you can stop, read the book. If you are curious about why I stopped... read the book. Nothing I can tell you about this book would give it credit as it is truly a personal (and memorable) experience, but of all things you may want to try to pack in smoking try this first (the book costs slightly more than a packet of fags).

This seems like a obvious thing, but the thing that you are addicted to in cigarettes is nicotine. The lozenges and all the other anti smoking aids on the market give you....nicotine. This makes it difficult to give up using substitutes (and bless the lot of you that do - just proves your determination)

Oh, and you can guarantee that you will not feel lectured to reading the book. Good luck to you all.

whymummy · 09/03/2005 06:55

oh fiona don't worry,you've come this far i'm sure you can do it.
cc moving is very stressing for the whole family including the cat,it'll all be worth it
minkmama we go to the fiesta together and take it in turns to babysit
hi serah,my friend gave me allen carr's book last monday and it is quite good

whymummy · 09/03/2005 06:58

sorry serah i meant to add that i hope your dad is ok now

fee77 · 09/03/2005 08:42

WHymummy you are up far too early!!!
Fg there is no point beating yourself up about it - just carry on as normal and try to forget your blip.
Sarah - thanks for the advice i bought alans book just before christmas, but read martina coles book instead!! I am not doing too bad though.
CC if your cat is getting stressed there is a plug in thing you can use to help calm them down - fellaway or something. I am part of the local cats protection and our fosterers swear buy it. You have to get it from the vets - hth.

whymummy · 09/03/2005 08:56

hi fee
i've been up since 4am,ds has a cold an raging temperature,we came downstairs and by the time the calpol did the job and ds fell asleep i was wide away

dropinthe · 09/03/2005 09:51

Hi everyone-HAPPY NO SMOKING DAY-
I too have read Alan Carrs book-v good but now I'm giving up today I havent got the time to read again(read it ist when I WAS PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST DS)Xcuse caps!Now got 2 DS.
I took whymummys advice and bought the lozenges(againsts old alans advice!!)-Tried one earlier and not sure-only 2mg and still made my heart race a bit-am not really a mint person either but for anyone who does use them Wilkinsons sell them dirt cheap-4.99 for 36-I think my mum was paying 17.99 for 72 in Boots-so thats double the price i think.

dropinthe · 09/03/2005 10:12

Please also feel free to join me in my new thread in Health-For all new n/smokers-I need some virgin buddies,(ooh,missus),to help me show these hardened non smokers here how its really done!!!(Only joking-youre the lucky ones who have done your bit-well,not lucky in your eyes-its was probably shitty sheer hard work_but you are still lucky in our virgin eyes,eh!!)
Lucky ones, please also feel free to join above thread to give us your pearls of wisdom with those pearly white teeth of yours!!

whymummy · 09/03/2005 10:14

HAPPY NON SMOKING DAY
hi dropinthe,so glad to see you're going to try today like you said,keep yourself busy,my first few days i cleaned the house from top to bottom i had the music on full blast as well and was singing from the top of my voice while cleaning,lol,anything that helps take your mind of the evil sticks
keep coming in here when you feel like a puff

charliecat · 09/03/2005 22:23

Non smoking day will explain by dp has had a fag dangling from his lips all day, old Allen is right isnt he? (Totally agree serah!)
I am half moved already dps at that house im here and kids are at my mums....so stressed i cant speak and finish sentences and looking forward to going to work tommorow to be NORMAL and not up to my ears in boxes!
I was in a p.o the other day and a pregnant lady was speaking to her midwife who was picking up mail and they were saying the smoking person was meant to ring and didnt and the pregnant lady looked totally demoralised...as if she had worked her way up to stopping ...and the councellour (i know my spellings crap ok!!!)dude hadnt shown up..gutting. Anyway...couldnt help but say when it was my turn in the queue all the things serah said but shorter....I wrote ACs name down and just said hes your man, digusted with myself for smoking throughout my pregnancys bla bla....get the book/dvd whatever hes the man...gave her some hope(me being VERY enthusiastic) and i hope she follows it up....ive even rubbed off on my boss and shes thinking of giving it up......
Fiona...OMFG...I am speechless...I hope your sucking away on the lozengers, YOU CAN DO THIS. If you can do it for one day you can do it forever. Is it book related the stress? I am gonna be offline from now. So keep it up and i will update from librarys whenever i can. Be back in April. Someones gonna have to do the new thread when its needed. Please Please Please dont anyone have just one. Its always Just One and it ends up Just One Packet then One Day then you cant face the next day without one. Please dont have that just one xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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dropinthe · 10/03/2005 08:56

Well, I have got through my first day and night without a ciggie and am v pleased with myself. I even had a cry last night as was working in the shop I work in and this couple came to the till just before closing at 10pm and their little girl was crying her eyes out from the pain of earache-they didnt offer her hugs/kisses BED yet she was in agony-she should not have been sitting in a trolley at 10 oclock at night with two arseholes who kept telling her to shutup-she was milking it! ffff bastards-grrrrrrr!
Anyway,had to get off said till quickly before floodgates opened-still, no fags¬!!!
V disappointed with response to my new thread yesterday-thought I'd get hundreds of ciggie-free buddies-sniff sniff-I'll just keep myself going then.

fionagib · 10/03/2005 09:43

we're all here for you though, dropinthe!!

thanks for kind words, am back on straight an narrow & have just been for 25 min run before starting work sickeningly chuffed!!

Won't let silly rows or other start start me puffing again.... isn't it gonna be weird around here without cc? xxxx Let's be strong her her girls! By the time gets back on line I aim to report that I have smoked zero fags!!!

whymummy · 10/03/2005 14:23

well done dropinthe for getting through your first day!!and you fiona for starting again,you can do it,you can do it!!
how's the cat cc?i have this picture of him taking up smoking, stressed out about the move,lol
tomorrow i'm off to treat myself with the money i've saved this week

dropinthe · 10/03/2005 16:38

OOh, what have you bought?-how many did you smoke before whymummy?(by the way-Love your nickname-soooo applicable to me at mo with 3yDS)
Am almost through my second day-only had one disgusting lozenge although heart didnt beat so fast-they make me incredibly thirsty-good for the 2litre water day guilt trip though!

prettyfly1 · 10/03/2005 16:53

Hi Guys,

can i join too, i added a thread before and whymummy mentioned about this one. I really need some help to quit. I hate it but its like my brain persuades me that i really like it and my life is miserable without the "luxury" of it. I know all the stats on how much damge is does to me, my teeth are stained and at 32 weeks pregnant i have the best reason in the world. Still struggling - any suggestions??

p.s well done whymummy - seven weeks is fantastic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

whymummy · 10/03/2005 16:54

hi dropinthe
my ds and dd were going through the why phase when i joined mumsnet
so far i bought clothes,nice creams for my face to try and repair some of the damage the smoking caused and a lovely new perfume that i can actually smell now i love having a treat every week,makes it all well worth it.
i used to smoke 20 a day.
how are you doing today?

whymummy · 10/03/2005 16:58

hi prettyfly.posts crossed
so glad you came,i'm sure you'll be fine,we well help you,i've found this thread incredibly helpful,could not have done it without it