I got one years ago. It was so unfair as all my friends were sleeping about all over the place and I slept with one guy and he gave me herpes. He said he hadn't a clue he had had it, only that his ex-girlfriend used to get coldsores. I was plunged into a very deep depression, I felt my life was over. Felt like a lepper. That I should wear a cowl and ring a bell where ever I went, shouting 'unclean'. It took me years to get over it. I thought I'd never have sex again, have a boyfriend, anything. I was utterly devestated by it.