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Handhold if anyone’s around? Scan yesterday at 5pm, GP called this morning

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GiveOverWillYou · 21/11/2025 11:05

Wondering if anyone has any experience/insights?
Late 40s, on HRT. Cycle usually still rock solid, horrendously heavy, except for last few (2-3) months - spotting, random bleeds, periods when not due. Bit of pelvic discomfort.
Went to GP, but kind of hoped assumed it was the beginning of the end of periods and just the timing going haywire/and to find out how I should be taking progesterone as had previously been on that Day 15-28 and cycle being out of whack meant that that regime was going to be hard to do. GP said she could feel something on the left hand side. Recent CA125 was fine, recent smear was clear ‘but cervix is very red’. My cervix has always defied medical science (that’s another story) so wasn’t unduly worried. They upped progesterone to 200mg daily, put me on the 2 week wait for internal/external US. It’s been 5 weeks 😬but I had the US last night after 5 o’clock. Sonographer was rummaging around for ages (over 30 mins) and made a point of saying the GP will be in touch, but if they aren’t, you must contact them. I know they usually can’t/don’t say much. Told myself that it was good that the tests have been done and that I’d hear in due course, not to worry in the meantime. Then this morning I have had 3 calls from the GP before 10am, which I missed as was in a work meeting with phone off. I called them back and they asked me to come in at noon. So now of course I am absolutely shitting myself, and have self-diagnosed with every gynae cancer going.
Don’t know what I’m asking for really, other than a handhold, and if anyone has had similar happen and it turned out to be something that wasn’t nefarious. I feel lucky that at least I find out what’s going on this morning but the speed at which they’ve followed up is terrifying me 😧Speculation of course, but I can’t help but feel that if this was, I dunno, fibroids, there wouldn’t be this level of urgency this morning

OP posts:
falalalalaaaaaaaa · 18/12/2025 02:21

Wahey!!! Amazing news!!! So, so happy for you ♥️

Sunbeam01 · 18/12/2025 03:27

Excellent news OP!!!!!!

So so happy for you :)

Francestein · 18/12/2025 03:28

Omg good news almost never happens. What can I say? Merry Christmas! Just popping in to say that the Mirena is going to help protect you from menopausal symptoms and provide consistent, low-dose oestrogen to help protect your cardiovascular system, bones, brain etc. I’m so happy for you.

lovemybooks · 18/12/2025 03:28

So happy for you OP and I agree with you about the kind and caring Mumsnetters who take the time to handhold ❤️ Have a wonderful celebratory conga before another proseccco 😜

Gymnopediegivesmethewillies · 18/12/2025 03:39

Great news! Get it all whipped out. My sister is awaiting the same thing and can’t wait.

Very sorry to those of you facing a difficult Christmas time.

AspiringSloth · 18/12/2025 04:21

I'm so so pleased for you! Not sure why I didn't post before but I've been following and what a relief!

Folderoller · 18/12/2025 06:17

Wonderful news and such a relief after a very anxious time! 🎈
January, when you’re less likely to be out and about, is suited to convalescence.
I had two of these Bs which grew into one, requiring a full hysterectomy. There’s an added bonus. If you choose, you can wave goodbye to cervical smears. I did, and haven’t looked back.

Made up for you, OP!

LateMumma · 18/12/2025 06:21

Fantastic news! Have the best Christmas!

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 18/12/2025 06:43

Ohhh, that is fabulous!! I am wishing you the merriest Christmas and the most happy new Year,
@GiveOverWillYou! 🎄🎄✨✨🥂🥂

EllasMami · 18/12/2025 07:14

keeping in mind you are an absolute stranger can I just say reading this update has made me so happy. I feel like I got the best news this morning.

Are you a writer in real life? If you are not, consider this when you are in full blown recovery after your OP next month and bored, itching to do something. Please!

I wish you all the best for this journey, lady! You got this!!! Merry Christmas. X

watermybegonias · 18/12/2025 07:17

Best news ever!

SophieJo · 18/12/2025 07:21

Mumsnet at its best!
Just read all through your posts and nearly cheered out loud at the end! Merry Christmas to you and your family.

IWantAShitzu · 18/12/2025 07:24

I have only just come across this thread and I am sobbing!

I am so happy and relieved for you, what a rollercoaster you are on but this is definitely the best outcome.

we too are celebrating this Christmas - we didn’t know if my one year old son would live to be here with us but he is thriving!

I shall raise a glass to you on Christmas Day xxx

Broken12 · 18/12/2025 07:24

Wonderful news!!!

merry Christmas OP 😊

Hiphopboppertybop99 · 18/12/2025 07:32

Bloody fabulous news.... so pleased for you and I have indeed joined the Christmas Conga....👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️👯‍♂️

Fairy25 · 18/12/2025 07:48

So bloody happy for you! It’s made me reconsider getting private insurance. It’s so expensive! Now go and do something really nice and once you’ve had your op and are recovered you deserve a really nice holiday!!!! Fabulous news!!!!

ZippyDeer · 18/12/2025 07:49

I am so pleased that you will have the hysterectomy so soon. I had one when I was 39 but they did leave one ovary (since removed in a different op). Please do follow the advice from your consultant. This is a major operation with many layers having stitches and will be a shock to your body. Take the time to recover to avoid any problems. I was off work for 9 weeks. Having said all that, even though it is painful for a while, I immediately felt so much better in myself as soon as I had the op. The relief from no more painful and heavy periods was immense. Have a Happy Christmas and then get rid of TBT. xx

Geranium879 · 18/12/2025 08:03

Yayyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!! Brilliant news op!! I logged on this morning just to check on your thread!

For anyone thinking of going private - mine only costs me £45pcm (WPA). And it’s worth its weight in gold.

GumFossil · 18/12/2025 08:14

Wow. That has made my day, OP. I’m absolutely delighted for you.

chunkyBoo · 18/12/2025 08:15

Fantastic news @GiveOverWillYou 💃 I’ll join your conga!!

RoomToDream · 18/12/2025 08:15

Amazing news! So happy you can enjoy Christmas with your family without that big worry. Best of luck for the surgery and recovery. I hope you have a wonderful year ahead once that is out of the way

AnotherEmma · 18/12/2025 08:16

Ahhhh, excellent news! And thank goodness you were able to go private.

Mincepietastic · 18/12/2025 08:17

Absolutely blooming brilliant news 😍

A good friend had the same surgery as you and it went well, but took longer than what the surgeon has outlined for you to recover - I say that just to say that you'd be well to plan as to how it's going to work for at least as much time as the surgeon has said and then you'll be pleasantly surprised if it's quicker!

Peridot1 · 18/12/2025 08:18

Wow such good news. So pleased for you.

letshavetea · 18/12/2025 08:21

Delighted for you that it’s good news!! I’m 70 now but had a hysterectomy at 44 for an an enormous fibroid. I went private as we were insured at the time. The aftercare in that hospital was fantastic. Don’t underestimate the recovery though - it took me three months before I was ready to go back to work. I didn’t have HRT and now regret it. I agree with pp - ask to be referred to a menopause clinic.

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