THREAD FOR WISHING PEACE TO STEVE AND STRENGTH TO JO AND THE CHILDREN

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Thinking of you. (Not sure if ayone has started one)

Not really Posties fault but do get a regisitered letter off to them ASAP.

hope the SW manager gets back to you with suport for this evening, else i would hope she would call him and say no entry.

x.x.x

OJ - your strength is amazing, I know what a hard time this must be for you and kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and I wish Steve a peaceful passing knowing those who love him the most are by his side.

morning oj

xx

I am sorry but your post about Jury Service made me laugh
sending love as always HC xx

OJ

Ring the jury people and say you cna't do it. I got out of it by telling them I had moved since they called me. They will definitely excuse you.

Have you lined up some friends to be with you tonight in case Mike comes? You can't be on your own with him.

The tears are very sad, but also a sign of how much he loves you all and doesn't want to leave you, imho.

X

Write as soon as you can back to the Court requesting tob e excuse from Jury Service as your dh is terminally ill (do you have a copy of soemtihng "official", eg from the hopsice consultant that shows how imminent it is) and that you have three disabled chidlren to look after.

I worte back for something much less trivial: exempted for part of year anyway as within 5 years over previous service and then would have been heavily pregnant and thereafter breastfeeding - for which they would need to find facilites to express and then store EBM. For some reason they never got back to me!

Your reasons are far more compelling.

Thinking of you every day, and like everyone esle, am in awe of the way that you have maintained your dignity in these difficult times.

Girls just heard from OJ- Steve passed away in her arms at 10.30 the dear man had hung on for his children.

Rest in peace Steve.

Nothing to say Jo but love as always.

Oh Jo xxx

Glad he is at peace.

Love to you all xxx

Thinking of you more than ever, Jo. It was just as he would have wanted then. In your arms. How lovely. Wishing you all the strength in the world.

thinknig of you all OJ.

xx

I'm so sorry OJ. Love to you and your lovely children. No death is a good death - but I know from reading these threads that you gave Steve the best death possible. He was surrounded by his family and love - so much love - until his final minute.

Oh my. What a man. Here I am, crying for a man and a family I have never met. Steve, OJ, you have touched the lives of so many people. I am glad Steve is at peace now. Lots of love OJ, thinking of you so much! xxxx

You are all in my thoughts and prayers

Oh Jo.

It had to come but I know you are not ready.

You never would be.

Thinking of you.

OJ you have been and still are an amazingly strong woman. he had you there when he needed you the most.

peace to steve, strength & love to you and your 3 dc.

xx

Rest in peace Steve

OJ - you are an inspiration in the way you have dealt with everything. I send all of my love to you and the children.

x So sorry OJ - what a fighter. You are all in my prayers here.

Thinking of you.

He held on for your girls' birtthday and then some so that thier beirthday wouldn't be the day before he died.

He loved you all sooooooooo much.

Thinking about you all

Does anyone think we should start a thread saying that Steve has passed away? Just to let people know and to avoid people coming on here with something lighthearted or whatever?

Rest in Peace Steve.

My thoughts are with you all.

I'm sorry Jo but also know it was as you both wanted it to be. Thinking of you more than ever... xx

Done BUda thanks x