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(Flying) Bear hugs for Steve, onlyjoking and their children

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WanderingTrolley · 01/06/2008 23:15

Please note this thread has been continued here
For Steve

For oj

For Elliot

Quick! What do the girls like?

Is this ok? I think you said one of them liked to watch it.

Is that everyone sorted?

Not forgetting the carers!

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stickyj · 04/06/2008 07:59

Morning OJ, just sending love xxx

mummylin2495 · 04/06/2008 08:10

good morning Oj hope it has been an ok night for you both.x

trouble18524 · 04/06/2008 08:11

Morning oj.

Just to let you know I have arranged for a mass to be said for Steve at the vatican in Rome within the next wk.

I dont know you personally, but, this was one thing I felt I could do to let you know my thoughts are with you.

x

TheMadHouse · 04/06/2008 08:25

Morning OJ and Family

I hope you had a good nights rest and that the day brings withit sunshine

kayzisexpecting · 04/06/2008 08:26

Hope you had a good night OJ and got some sleep.

Hope you have a good day.

Thinking of you XX

mother3 · 04/06/2008 08:32

Oj hope this time of pain and sadness will Will bring you happy memories.Of course bitter sweet memories.It is so sad to hear of your life/situation and WITCH mil.Dont know how she can sleep at night,.Just to let you know you and your family are in our hearts and mind.Not much words of comfort as no 1 can change your situation.If any of us could we would.xxYou will always treasure this time left with steve.It will be very hard when he goes but try to be positive and cherish the memories he will leave you with.Of course you have your lovely children .Keep up your strenght and love .

olivo · 04/06/2008 08:46

OJ, i continue to be in awe of your strength and courage, and the grace and dignity with whch you deal with people who should be supporting you and clearly are not.
I wish steve a peaceful journey when he chooses to leave, and i hpe you take comfort in the enormous love he has for you and your children.
May you continue to gather happy memories for now!

fawkeoff · 04/06/2008 08:58

beautiful words OJ, i have nothing but admiration for the way you are handling this heartbreaking time in your life....i truly believe that those who love you the most never truly leave you. your MIL is an absolute raving looney and it is sad that she is tarnishing the precious time you have with your husband by acting like a bitter child. I have nothing more to say really other than you and your lovely family continue to be in my heart and daily prayers x (((((effin big hug))))) x

triplets · 04/06/2008 08:59

Thats a lovely phrase, "gather happy memories". Oj, every morning you are in my thoughts, wondering how your night has been.....much love and strength I send you today, from not so sunny Deal. xxx

WatsTheStory · 04/06/2008 09:04

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Cadbury · 04/06/2008 09:16

Morning OJ. Thinking of you as ever this morning.

cloudexplosion · 04/06/2008 09:18

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iMum · 04/06/2008 09:21

Morning OJ, thinking of you all today.

kay1981 · 04/06/2008 09:24

oj, you are in all our thoughts and prayers, and i hope you gain strength from steve and your children, and as my mum said to one of my closest friends when his dad had passed away, "walk tall", (as he is 6'5", he said that wasnt difficult, but he got the meaning and still remembers it now!)

So walk tall oj!

Take care xx

foxythesnowfox · 04/06/2008 09:30

just came to give you a (hug)

lots of love to you OJ, Steve and your lovely children xx

Solitaire · 04/06/2008 09:36

Morning OJ, hope Steve had a peaceful night.

Love consultant , its doctors like this that remind me why its good to be health professional, she sounds fab

thewiltedrose · 04/06/2008 09:43

Oj you angel.

Your an amazing woman and when i think of you dealing with everything your dealing with to take the time out send me that card i actually cried. Thank you so much it means the world to me and youve made my day!

Love and kisses and grattitude and anything else i have to give x

grouchyoscar · 04/06/2008 09:45

OJ, you're human, it's OK to cry, even about olives. I would have been a wreak facing the stuff you have. You are an amazing lady and I send you love and strength (Tho you seem to have buckets of that)

Hope Steve had a peaceful night

In my thoughts

Lucewheel · 04/06/2008 09:47

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MrsJonnyDepp · 04/06/2008 09:48

Lovely words OJ -

You MIL never fails to amaze! Just when you think she has sunk to the lowest level - she bobs up with worse.

Thinking of you xxx

LittleMyDancing · 04/06/2008 09:55

Thinking of you all down here in Bristol, OJ.

xxxxx

sparklesandnowinefor5months · 04/06/2008 10:00

thinking of you and your family OJ xx

chutneymary · 04/06/2008 10:12

Hi Oj, thinking of you and your family this morning XXXX

BLONDIEBABE · 04/06/2008 10:13

Hi OJ thinking of you and all the family as always.
Best wishes.
xxxxx

Madamejaffa · 04/06/2008 10:14

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