A long time lurker here that hasn't posted on your thread before,mostly because I just couldn't think of any words that would and will make this better for you,not that anything can.
But let me say that checking this thread,like many others ,is the first and last thing I do on the internet every day.
Jo,Steve and your beautiful darling children-you have all and still are being so brave and fighting for every second you have left,and sadly your bravest times are still yet to come.
I am appalled at Steve's family and the way they are behaving,sadly though in situations when loved ones pass over this all too often happens.
Jo I think it was yesterday you said although thinking about things like olives now makes you upset,you know in the times ahead thinking about olives will make you smile when you remember back before all the problems Steve's illness has caused.
Likewise Steve's family will have these times but when you and your children think back to the period of Steve's illness and his passing ,you all can and will hold your heads up high and ,in time ,perhaps even will be able to remember things that will make you smile,your in-laws won't,their behaviour is despicable and when they look back on this time they will remember and realise all they have done is cause pain to Steves loved ones and brought shame and humiliation on themselves.
I send you ,Jo and your children the strength and bravery that you will all need in Steve's final hours,and thoughts from my family here.
To Steve I wish love,light and peace at your passing.
Please note this thread has been continued here