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Problem/Dependent Drinkers and Alcoholics (recovering or active) Support V

690 replies

kokeshi · 22/05/2008 00:12

Welcome to the thread, the purpose of this is to give anyone who is having any trouble with their drinking, a safe place to come and post about it honestly and without judgement.

There are many of us that use the thread for support and encouragement: some in recovery, others just needing a place to share about their worries. It's been going on in one form of another for a while now and has helped many people.

Thank you to all of those who have kept it going thus far, and welcome to anyone who has decided the time has come to ask for help.

Everybody's welcome, no matter what stage your drinking is at.

Jump right in, the water's fine

OP posts:
gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:04

Viola - amazing Nas! Are you very good? Have played recorder, piano and guitar at one point or another. Got really quite good at piano but then left school and pianos were never really that easy to come by!

Do you play professionally?

My work tis very boring - I work for myself and I work at home which means I'm often working!!

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:05

no I should be but no

what is your job?> I ahve just become self employed

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:08

why are you blushing! Self-employed is a brave step - how's it going?

I'm a translator. Went self-employed about 6 years ago and the first year was horrific, got into such debt. It's got better and better and now I curse when my inbox is full, rather than empty!!

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:08

why are you blushing! Self-employed is a brave step - how's it going?

I'm a translator. Went self-employed about 6 years ago and the first year was horrific, got into such debt. It's got better and better and now I curse when my inbox is full, rather than empty!!

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:14

hey well done!!! whatr languages????

I am cos I am working for the nhs lol but dont tell anyone if they knew about me they woudlnt have me

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:17

Nas, good for you! And then going off to play viola of an evening, it's fucking brilliant! Do you play classical only or do you do contemporary stuff too? My stepbrother is a trumpet/horn player and is in a band. He's a sweetheart but often misses gatherings as he stops off to practice on the way somewhere!! (he gets easily distracted).

I do french, spanish and portuguese but french mainly. It's a great job as every job you get is different so less inclination to get bored!

Gerbra x

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:20

hey that is fab Gebra!!!! do you do msn btw? if so cat me, I cant give out my address ats it is my rl name sorry

I try so bloody hard to help myself youknow, depsite what people think - the drinking is really justr the coping strategy

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:24

I don't doubt for a minute that you're not trying to help yourself Nas! That's the thing, I think we all try but some of us (me/you/XXX% of the rest of the world) use drink / drugs whatever to help us along, whether it's right or wrong, that's what we do.

I don't Msn or facebook after being a total twit on there (will brave it soon PurpleOne!!). Shall I CAT you? I can (I've learned how!!)

Gerbra x

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:27

yes if you can I havent update my subs

but DO msn it is fun and faster than mn!!!

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:31

Have promised myself not to venture into other networking areas (except for FB maybe) as I work with my PC all day and it's such a temptation to do this and not work (post count will bear evidence to that ).

Will CAT you with my e-mail address anyway, would be lovely to chat some more

Gerbra xx

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:33

yesssssssssssssssssssss

do!!!

I had to give up FB when I was found by someone who should not have fdound me, is v annoying htho

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:36

Nice one! If I go quiet now, it's cos I'm watching Peep Show, my favourite programme in the whole world!!

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:38

heheheheheheheheheh

wher is everone else????????????????????

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:50

peep show is funny!!!! (commercial break)

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:51

rofl I am gfood enough for the commerciual break. says it all

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:54

ooooo, not at all!!
Post away, peep show ends in 15, otherwise you have my e-mail...I'm still here, just one eye on the TV!
(you should watch it though, it's very funny!)

naswm · 06/06/2008 22:56

I dont have it yuet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and tv is offf

gerbra · 06/06/2008 22:59

Oh, now they're doing 'viking re-enactments'! Tell me more about viola on sunday session Nas? Is it part of a band, orchestra?

naswm · 06/06/2008 23:00

noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
shoud never have told you that hehe

gerbra · 06/06/2008 23:02

ooooh you're a coy one!
Please tell! If you're doing that on sunday, what are your plans for saturday?

naswm · 06/06/2008 23:03

ummm well theboiys have dancing which takes up most of my day, plus the grocery shopping and a church do in the even

now tell me abouty YOU

gerbra · 06/06/2008 23:04

I honestly have left no detail out: working, mum - gardening, mum - hemming my trousers. My life really is that dull

(although I love mum to bits to time with her is time well spent!)

gerbra · 06/06/2008 23:05

what kind of dancing do your boys do?

naswm · 06/06/2008 23:06

modern and tap

nothing like liveing ytour life through your DC is there lol

gerbra · 06/06/2008 23:08

Weelll, I think you're probably more healthy than me...I live life (apart from DP obviously), through my dog and my goldfish...no DCs by the way...

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