It's my parsley and I'll cry if I want to - 10/10 thread. All welcome!

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Franny, ds1 blowpiped a pencil at ds2 and it went in his eye.

back again
ds having coughing fits

ummm...
will try & keep it short ish

My father left my mother suddenly a couple of years ago
only I know his whereabouts
Today I recieved a letter from a solicitor acting on behalf of my mother asking me to contact him urgently with any info I have regarding my father

Now....Two questions
1 Is this likely to mean that my mother has approached solicitor about my father,or is she in trouble?
2 Am I obliged by law to give any info?

thankyou to anyone who is still up & can make any sense of that

Franny it is nice to have you back
I think trainer is a v good idea

lovely to have you back too
How was Cornwall,which bit did you go to?

My Dad's job. We lived in Lahore and Karachi from 84ish - 88ish. I loved it. I think my Mum had a hard time.

Bringing up 4 tiny children is never easy, especially in Karachi!

I really miss it.

Whereabouts are your family from? I have plans to go to India with my best friend next year. I want to go to Kerala (for the food) and Rajasthan and a few other places. Tricksy with an infant, but my Mum managed! We have friends in Goa too, but not sure I can get sucked back into hippydom.

excuse lack of punctuation,grammar & dreadful sp

am too tired to be arsed

Goodness Lully, I don't know.

Good lord LL, I was just wondering where you were.

Stressful.. Can you ask why they want to know?

Well,I could I suppose
But dont really want to ring them unless I have too IYSWIM

Well, wait till they call you back, then ask. If it's that urgent, they'll Call you back. If it's just them being shifty, they'll keep leaving messages.

Don't stress

Good night lovely ladies. I'm off for an orgasm.

They didn't call,it was a letter
They used dh's surname too ,not mine
which was a bit odd

Phew. Found you.

Damn a teeny bit too late it seems. Orgasms?

Good fruit day, bad moving faster than a snail day.

Now will attempt to ctach up on orgasm detail

Yeah, I knew someone would take the bait. No orgasms yet but they are in the offing.

I had amazing sex last night. It was almost like (whisper it) pre baby sex. Wise nodding going on around the 10/10 table. I should fight with DH more often (not possible you might say).

I'm going to start an orgasm thread tomorrow I reckon. Might have to take a can of beer into work to kick start things.

OB were you ES?

Yes orgasm threads are always lovely, do that.

OB, you are v v naughty, and I am jealous, lol!

i have read the thread

im not sure where i am i tried to tell dd1 but she doesnt like it and goes into everyone has down times overdrive im not sure if she has ever been told that i may have a more complex problem...when i spent 3 months i hospital she was 15 i thought she knew why i was there but maybe not

perhaps she's in denial?

3 months? That must have been hard for you

no she sounded blank

but i have nevr said so hoiw would she know

i made a terrible mistake once and told exh i was leaving him the same day that ds was starting boarding at school

i am crap really

You are not crap [stern]

Not crap, zippi.

Is it worth trying to explain it to her properly? Or would it be better not to?

Sorry so many people are feeling rubbish.

Lully - can you ask a solicitor? Or CAB what your rights are.

no i once took a boy who had lots of problems to board for the first time at school when he just witnessed me leaving his dad hours or probably less earlier..i think i am having a confessional moment..i need to be kicked out of 10/10

sorry LL i am in self centred mode as usual

um i dont know what you should do

actually this might make u laugh

bf is calling in for the night tomorrow so i said i would make him dinner what did he want

he said stew and dumplings

wtf

so what do you suggest