Just had the phone call to say ....STEVE IS COMING HOME ON MONDAY !

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trulymadlydeeply, very well put, I do so struggle OJ to put my feelings into words at every post. Summed up very well by truly.

Go to the top of the eloquence (think thats right) class and be the chief rum pourer and cake cutter (sneak me a piece will you ?)

Big hugs OJ. x.x.x.x

the kids are muddling throu, they don't really understand how bad things are right now, they keep asking if Dad will be here for Abbey And Bethans birthday, i don't think he will but i can't tell them that.

When's there b'day OJ ?

OJ. thinking of you.

the girls birthdays are 7th june, five weeks away

just been catching up on your battles with your in-laws oj.What a horible family they sound.im sorry that you are having to still cope with all this shit from them.Thank god steve has you and your children to love and care for him.

Hope he can OJ for the girls !
May be worth an early celebration

Oh oj - you do appear to be Wonder Woman, did you know?

I guess you didn't, because you would have throttled MIL with your golden necklace thing by now.....

I am glad Steve is keeping the trifle industry going. I have recently bought shares in Bird's, and have made a fortune I even had to have some trifle myself after reading about Steve (I raised a spoon to him)

In the best way, I hope you have a very dull night

He still knows how much you and the children all love him, I am sure of that. People who work in hospices know that love will reach their clients even if they are in pain, or confused.
What a wonderful person you are OJ. XXX Thinking of you both, as ever.

wonder woman i ain't i just don't have the figure for the outfit

OJ, what can I say? I think about you and Steve lots during the day. I'm glad to hear all the support is helping you.

maybe if you cut down on those choc orange cakes you might squeeze into the hotpants??

Love to you all.
Sleep well
x

i truely don't know where i would be without all of the rum support i have had

I just wish there was more we could do

OJ did you ever watch Gimmee Gimmee Gimmee?

She squeezed herself into a lime PVC outfit once, you aint gotta look that bad honey.

i can't do the rubber outfits its the latex plays havoc with me breathing. funnily enough i have lost some weight the last few months, last time i was near the scales i was 9 stone 4. it is not a diet i would recommend thou. i just forget to eat, cos the kids have school dinners and steve doesn't eat much i just forget, it is only when one of my mates ask me what i have had to eat that i think about it.

Just seen your post - have a great evening. x

Oj, you are doing all that you can possibly do. You are trying to make every moment count, for Steve and the kids. I used to feel like I was milking those awake and less pain moments for all that they are worth. Beyond that there is nothing else you can do. Steve every moment is spent being loved and knowing that he's loved. Its the greatest gift you could ever give him. I so want to be there to give you a hug.

I am working late tomorrow & Thursday and I leave for Poland on Friday so I probably won't be able to post from now on but please OJ, text me anytime (on the alternate number). I'll be back on Tuesday. Much love xxx

Izabella i don't have your other text number i think i deleted it after last time, i hope you have a safe journey, speak soon.

OJ

i wish
i look nothing like that, you should see the bags under my eyes, i will need planning permission for them soon

Folks as this thread is nearly full I'm going to start another one so Jo can keep us all updated as I know we are all thinking of her daily & she's a bit busy
stuffingtriflesandknockingbacktherum being superwoman as you know to do it.

I'll set it up & do a link!

she doesn't have true norks, the lumps in the front of her chest are old inverted trifle pots.

the new link-keep talking till this ones full!

i will leave quietly but i will
be taking-- the rum