Steve is going into the hospice this afternoon

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i know he needs to be there and hopefully they can get him more stable.

I'm sure it's the best thing for Steve and you make sure you get some rest yourself. Thinking of you both. Take care.

best wishes to you all.

thinking of you all OJ and sending my best wishes xxx

Hey OJ, It must have been awful leaving Steve today. Sending you absolutley massive hugs every single one of the infused with rum and coke.

Do you think you might sleep well tonight ?

I hope you do and feel rested and go and see Steve feeling a bit more human tomorrow.

How far away is the Hospice, I hope you have not got a huge treck everyday.

Hope to see you in the sanctuary this evening, shall I plump a couple of cushions in anticipation ?

Hope Steve settles in quickly.
Thinking of you and your family, OJ

Oh Darling Girl..

Hugs hugs hugs OJ. I am sure you feel totally drained. Please try and have a good night's sleep.

Have been following your posts- sending best wishes to you, Steve and the rest of your family. Try and get as much rest as you can.

I have also been lurking and now just want to echo what the others have said. You have been amazing and have made the right decision. Will be thinking of all of you xxxx

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

thinking of you.
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well i should sleep tonight i can't remember the last full nights sleep i had.

OJ - (Callmemadam here) I am so sorry that matters have moved on like this and I'm lost in admiration of your coping skills - but I hope the hospice can also help and support you through this time because you are so important to your LOs. Maybe they can help with your concerns about how to approach the subject with Elliott? Just want to send our prayers and love to you all.

oj, I've not been on MN much and have just caught up.
Thinking of you and your family, and of Steve, at this time.

the hospice my mum was in was such a calm place, and the staff were fantastic, for both patients and their families. I hope Steve is comfortable and that you manage to get some rest.

Sending all my love to you and your family OJ x x x

thinking of you oj. Wish there was something more useful I could say.
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oj I can't imagine how you're feeling. Does Steve seem happy to be there where he can be looked after?

Thinking of you OJ. Hope you manage to have lots of restorative sleep tonight.

have just phoned up and spoke to the nurse, steve not settled i didn't want to talk to him for fear of making him worse

They will settle him, and the interim young lady go and get some sleep.

Much love

LGJ

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Have not posted before. My thoughts echo those of the others... You have been strong and brave. Inspirational. Love and hugs to you and your family. xx

I lurk more than post, but I do keep track of your threads oj. You and yours are often in my thoughts and I wish you strength and restful sleep. Aero xx

I have followed your threads. With best wishes to you, Steve and family x

Have been lurking on your threads as have nothing new to add, but want to say that DH and I are thinking of your family. From experience I want to say that you have made the right choice for Steve and for you. Sending our love
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What's happening with him oj?