can i ask you lovely lot to cross fingers and fanjos for Steves scan results.

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what a weekend.
Steves been in bed since saturday feeling sick but not been sick, he is struggling to balance and has been in a lot of pain.
Steve ended up with the doctor out again last night and was given morphine. he slept much better last night
it's so hard to be optimistic about scan results when he is feeling so crap.
on the one hand we want the scan results out of the way, but on the other hand we don't want to know, just in case it isn't the best news. the timing is crap and we just can't get into the christmas spirit.
the kids have several things on at school the next two weeks and don't know if we will be able to go.
sorry if it sounds like i am always moaning but mumsnet is my sounding board.

Everything crossed here too...

i wonder what Steve would say if i told him lots of women have their fanjos crossed for him

that will cheer him up I bet!

All crossed.

well he's never been on mumsnet so knows not what fanjos and norks are

My guess was going to be "WTF is a fanjo???"

I can't cross my norks though. Sorry.

everything crossed for you,steve and the kids

Thinking of you tomorrow especially and I hope you get some good news to carry you through Christmas.

Everything crossed.

well i can't cross my norks or my fanjo but i have heard mention on MN that other people can, so i thought i would ask

Well I have squashed my norks together in an effort to cross them. I will keep everything else crossed for you though.

Thinking of you and with everything crossed

I have not added before but have been keeping an eye on your threads and I do cross everything for you for tomorow. I do hope the news is good or as good as it can be.

Lots of love hugs and positive vibes to you OJ.
I honestly don't think you ever moan ever. If anything OJ and in spite of it all you are still there giving so much help and advice to others.
You really are such an amazing and lovely person.
I think about you and your family often.
I have everything crossed ~X~X~X~X~X~X~X~X~X~

you see even with an uplifting bra i don't have enough norkage to cross

Oh oj, please don't worry about 'moaning' on here, you have so much on your plate, you have to let it out somewhere.

I have my fingers, legs, fanjo and mahoosive norks crossed for tomorrow.

Thinking of you and yours, hang in there.

xx

I have not been on your thread before, but have followed for a while. I just want to say I don't know how you cope - you are just fantastic.

Hope everything goes ok.

who says i cope they are deluded and have not seen my cobwebs and ironing pile

in fact i have just seen the spiders donning climbing gear and dust masks

We all have cobwebs and piles of ironing to do! I can see a cobweb right now and I supposedly cleaned the house from top to bottom on Sunday.

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OJ I think that there a quite a lot of us that have cobwebs and piles of ironing and we don't even have all the things that you have to cope with. I know I do. I think you are fab for coping with it all and please rant and rave and screem if it means that you leave here feeling a bit better.

See you can joke even with all the shite life throws at you!!!!

That's why we all think you're fab!!

All crossed-going upstairs to bed will be interesting

thinking of you all xxx

i suppose the thing is we are used to coping 3 kids with autism has taught us that but this thing seems much bigger and shitter probably cos there is Feck all we can do about it other than just try to cope
DS asked me tonight what will happen if they can't get rid of Dads bad cells? and it broke me