DH has to go in hospital tomorrow for brain tumour removal, am frightened.

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had a phone call form neuro bloke at hospital this morning to say scan shows aggressive growth of tumour. tumour now thought to be higher grade
have sorted out for the kids to be looked after, they are blissfully unaware.

Thankyou for all your good thoughts & kind words, i had a mate over last night so that kinda kept me busy, was up at 3.30, read for a bit but couldn't get back to sleep.
my windows are now nice and clean and ironing basket is empty.
i am going to drop the kids off with a friend soon then go throu to the hospital where i will be for most of the day,
the neuro bloke says that as tumour is now aggressive and has changed they feel the likelyhood is that it is cancer
i will update later.

Hope it all goes well today. My thoughts are with you and your DH.

oh onlyjoking

We are all thinking of you and your DH x

Oh Onlyjoking, how truly shite.

I'm thinking of you and your DH xxxxxxxx

Thinking of you and Steve today with every wish for a swift and sucessful operation and a very speedy complete recovery.
Dont know if it will be of any consolation, but my gran had a brain tumour when she was 49, not diagnosed until it had her go into a seizure (and fall off a ladder) and left her paralyzed down her right side...being 1963 they couldnt get the whole tumour out and gave her a prognosis of just 5 years...she was left with almost no after effects apart from walking with a stick for the rest of her life...and lived another 36 years, as she died of heart failure aged 85!!!

I don't really 'know' you onlyjoking but have just seen this and hope everything goes well for your dh today. My Granny also had a brain tumour removed about 20 years ago and is still going strong at 87! I really hope he's ok and you get good results today.

Praying for you now

Thinking of you all today OJ xx

I have only just seen this. Thinking of you all.

Thinking of you all xxxx

There is lots I want to say but can't find the words (A friend since babyhood was diagnosed with a brain tumour 2 years ago, it's hard to sit and watch and wait )

well he went down to theatre at 10, i was told he would be 2 hours in theatre plus 2 hours in recovery, i went down at 2, he was still in theatre, i have just got back home and phoned and he is still in theatre.

my goodness

thinking of you all. hope you get some good news soon x x x

yes, I hope you hear what's happening soon.

It's horrible when you don't know what's going on.

thinking of you all.

thinking of you all x

OJ, you must be beside yourself and I bet no-one is telling you anything atm.

why would they tell me anything i am only his wife

Oh onlyjoking its so tough this waiting

thnking of you

Hope all goes well and he's back home with you soon.

Sending lots of love and positive vibes to your dh oj. Big hugs to you too XXXXX

Waiting to hear about anything important is hell - when it's something like this it must be 10 times worse - hugs, oj, hope you hear soon and that it's good news.

this last 7 months have all been about waiting, after his op we then do yet more waiting for the results.