I am so back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The wedding was absolutely fabulous, even tho the night before, I was on my own with dd in a hotel room so dh could go and be best man, and dd kept me up all night! Little bugger. I got three hours sleep before the most important weekend this year
the day went really well, I had to whisk dd out during some of the speeches, she was heckling her daddy too much!
The disaster happened the day after...we were waiting at MIL's while dh went to a football match, and his sister (age 23 and V. responsible) watched dd while I went to take a much-needed nap.....
from being seated on the floor surrounded by cushions dd fell over backwards onto her arm, and ended up in severe pain, we had to go to casualty for x-rays, I was in bits...
to cut long story short (too late) she had to have 2 xrays because the doctors were incompetant,,and we had to stay overnight at MIL to take her back the next day to see a consultant paediatrician,,,,she was in agony all night and would only sleep on the boob, so I fed her all night and have bad nipps again....
I wept for about 3 hours in rage at my paralysed little one
we went back next day and a cleaner said it looked like a dislocated elbow...the paediatrician who was lovely, agreed and fixed it in 10 secs flat...hence I am going to sue the bloody nhs for incompetance for my dd having a night of unneccessary agony, unnessecary xrays and her records and info were left unwatched in a public place.
so upsetting after a wonderful weekend.