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Be gone foul fag - quitters thread part 2

366 replies

imaginaryfriend · 17/08/2006 22:28

Hi guys ... join me over here?

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Tortington · 24/08/2006 20:56

hope so am going on a mumnset piss up in brighton tomorrow - that will be hard.

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 21:00

Not necessarily, custy. Do they all smoke? Can you try to fix it in your mind that it will taste horrible and make you feel crap after a few days without? And more to the point you'll have to go through that horrible withdrawal business again. How's your mouth now?

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imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 21:02

You know, I was just thinking, I can only remember about 5 craving episodes today. Such a vast improvement. And there were lots of times it didn't enter my mind. Including after dinner with dp and dd tonight, I've just realised that I haven't thought about smoking since about 4.30 pm today ...

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:25

Frigging hell you lot rock
Custy, you cant smoke at a MN meetup. you just CANT you will sit proudly with the fag free lot ok!!!!!!!!!!!!

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:28

cc!!!!!!!!!!

Hey, panboy's had a bit of a slip-up and is avoiding us ... He thinks he'll bring us down if he confesses.

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:36

Really? PANBOY GET BACK HERE. Dont sink in an ashtray, get back on the wagon.

charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:39

Can you drive IF? Ive another test coming up, next next Sat.
Can feel another fail coming on...argghhh

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:41

Nah ... failed 5 bloody times. All over stupid little things which is more annoying than failing over something big. Anyhow we can't afford a car at the moment so not bothering.

But, think positive cc, you've helped all these no-hopers to quit so you can pass your test. I know you can!!

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:43

Fart,,only another 3 to fail to catch up wiht you. Arse, its gutting isnt it? glad its not just me though!
After this the money has dreid up and ive had it...pressurrrrrrrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.
You know the first time I failed i didnt think about fags till the next day at 11am and I thought Jeesus, I may have failed my test but i didnt want to smoke...RESULT lol

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:48

Yes it's a very expensive business.

I keep feeling constantly chuffed that I've 'forgotten' to think about fags at various 'trigger' points of the day. Today's been so much better in general. The cravings hit me and I think in a kind of cave-man way 'gimme fag, gimme fag' then before I know it they've gone and I'm thinking about something else. At what point did those feeling fade altogether, cc?

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:52

Last week Nah..erm...a while yet my friend, im not going to lie, but its gets further and further away and you have to remind yourself that to have a fag would only make this hell return at full speed.
The realising someones got a fag in your face and you didnt even realise is a good one...long may it continue

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:55

A while. What? A month? Two? Six months? I can't remember how long it took previously. I think it must be over 2 months because I quit last year for that long and still slipped back into it easily. Too easily!

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 22:57

Be patient, this is the beginning of the end of getting away from the hell that is smoking. In 6 months time you will look back and wonder how it could comsume so much of your brain space.
No going back.
No slipping up ok!

imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:57

Aw, Jeez cc, I'm a wuss, I've got to crash. Wish I could chat to you all night ... But my eyes are closing, my warm bed is calling ... zzzzzzzzzzz

Nighty night whiskers x

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imaginaryfriend · 24/08/2006 22:58

Nope, no going back. Not this time. This is the last time. I can't do it again.

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charliecat · 24/08/2006 23:00

No you cant, sweet dreams xx

Panboy · 25/08/2006 09:36

Hi all!

on friends laptop at work....

it wasn't in general i was shy of returning, it was specifically you IF...sounded like a real struggle and didn't wish to stoke the fires further...but well done to you...

and yes, had an unexpected exchage of emails with ex- which were not pretty, and I foolishly thought "I know what I need right now!!"....

wishing to return the this clean air thread.....

charliecat · 25/08/2006 11:03

Lesson learn then panboy...didnt sort out the problem with your X girlfriend did it?
Remember that

imaginaryfriend · 25/08/2006 11:20

so panboy, did you buy a pack and smoke them all? Have you since totally quit etc.?

Today my cravings have been so minor I'm really feeling quite good!

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Hulan · 25/08/2006 11:21

Hi

Just joined up today. I quit when I was pregs because the mere thought of a cig made me need to visit my best friend the toilet. But when my boy was six weeks old I dropped him in the most terrible way which completely shattered my nerves. Anyway, I went and bought a pack which has been my demise. Smoke about 7 per day (less at week-ends) but desperately need to quit

imaginaryfriend · 25/08/2006 12:42

Come and join Hulan! The more the better. I'm just over a week into my quit and feeling better today than since I started. I can see light at the end of the tunnel. We'll all be here to support you.

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Tortington · 25/08/2006 13:43

my dh just rang " what time is it"
fucking nutcase think i " 13.20"
" I HAVE stopped smoking for 48 hours and 20 mins"

well done my dh! never thought he would do it

he went on" when we get out first house with the first moths mortgage we will know its all paid for with fag money"

how fab is that.

he was countin hours like i did - now its days - like i did i am up to my first week on sunday. only 3 more weeks before i am counting in months.

yay.

imaginaryfriend · 25/08/2006 15:10

Hurray for you guys, custy! I've got a feeling you're going to do it this time. Do you feel that way about it?

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imaginaryfriend · 25/08/2006 20:51

Cc and others - I'm off to MIL for the weekend, until Sunday night. Have a great weekend everybody!

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charliecat · 26/08/2006 08:53

And you Im off to london for the day. Be good everyone

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