But it isn't that black and white is it?
Timescale of loss of maternal measles antibodies varies from population to population and from individual to individual, with many factors at play.
One of those factors is exposure to measles virus from the wider population for mothers (who have immunity). Currently there is a lack of natural 'boosting' of the mother's antibodies due to a waning of exposure to the virus - this is a direct result of high levels of vaccination. Reduced duration of maternal immunity is a direct consequence of mass vaccination.
To say that the parents 'will have to live with this for the rest of their lives' is blinkered and stupid (and cruel). You are failing to look at the wider,, more complex, picture.
Vaccination interferes with the natural mechanisms of disease. A lot of the time it interferes in good ways but there are undesired consequences too. The waning of maternal protection, and the resultant vulnerability of infants is one of them.
Age of measles infection appears to affect vulnerability to developing SSPE with infants under one year of age being more vulnerable.
Reported SSPE incidence is not black and white either and varies greatly.
ije.oxfordjournals.org/content/36/6/1334.full
Reported SSPE incidence varied greatly from approximately 0.2 to 40 cases per million population per year. Direct comparison of countries is problematic because methods and quality of ascertainment have been inconsistent. UK 8 and, more recently, USA9 data analyses have calculated true incidence of SSPE to be approximately 4?11 cases of SSPE per 100 000 cases of measles. A higher risk is associated with earlier infection: the risk following measles infection under 1 year of age was 18/100 000 compared with 1.1/100 000 after 5 years of age in the UK. Reported rates in Israel have been even higher reaching 23.2?27.9 cases of SSPE per 100 000 cases of measles between 1964 and 1969; with rates in those infected under 1 year of age cited as 360.3?375.6 cases/100 000 measles cases.