After the darkness, comes the LIGHTer ladies!

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Hello, tis me, Mouseface.

Welcome to the LIGHTer threads. We are a part time healthy eating thread and on ocassion, we are the WHETE (Worst Healthy Eating Thread Ever)!!

Hopefully, we'll get back on track in the New Year but for now, most of us are trying not to put any more weight on.

I've managed to put over half a stone on in 5 weeks! Argh!

Come and join us for lots of chat, laughs and bloody good company.

DISCLAIMER - No cliques, bitch fests or vipers allowed!

Last one over is a rotten Banana

Bubs

Steal away xx

Fair enough satan xx

Shit, that was to starting a thread not the above Satan!!

sorry people.

not good at not being straight.

i'm really disgusted by what i read and would rather say it straight out on here than behind someone's back.

hamster get your children out of that situation. no excuses - there IS no excuse.

have a good night lovely langers. cuddle your babies and be grateful x

Sorry, Satan, I just saw the post needing a new thread and dealt with it, I wan't being insensitive to your post .

Got to say Hammy I'm totally with Santa on this. The things you are describing aren't normal honestly.

Your dc should not be swearing at you. If they have learnt that from their father swearing at them then that is disgusting. He should not be anywhere near children if he swears at them.

You've spoken before of the things that he has done to you and your children. He should be nowhere near them. I assumed (obviously incorrectly) that you had left him.

The fact that you stay with him when he is so abusive means that you are (imo) not taking steps to prevent that abuse of your children.

I don't want to cut off any support that you have here if its helping you work towards leaving him. However, if that is not the case, then I also can't chat with someone and have a laugh with someone who I believe is allowing child abuse to continue.

So I suppose I'm saying the same as Satan, you can't throw a stick very far on this thread without hitting someone with a problem and we all try to help each other. If you need help, great, I'm sure we can help you emotionally and practically. But if you're going to continue the status quo then I don't feel confortable around that.

I don't really know the background Hammy, but it sounds terribly sad for you but even more so for the kids. I don't know what to say but can see why the other ladies are very concerned.

miitz poppet, you ok?

and WHERE IS BITTER????????

I've text Bitter but got no reply as yet. Maybe she's just got in from work and doing parenting Brian. you know how hard that is don't you?

I have asked for the other thread to be deleted. I do apologise for causing offence Brickie xx

Re Hammy I am not going to comment on here.

Thanks Brian x

ive got to go out, not ignoring you miitz x

was just sorting dinner! thanks Mittz, sorry to go all humourless feminist on you

I did not feel that it was fair for me to comment on Hammy or your opinions as I have no right to divulge anything that I know about her situation, but I have had a text from her and she has asked me to express that All parties, SS, GP and schools are aware of most of their situation, I also know she has attempted contact with WA.

Her MH is but she feels like shit and helpless. She won't be posting on here again.

Thank you Mittz.

yes, a lot of us have mental health problems mittz, it is hard but children come first.

everyone here has said they will support and help her if she wants to leave him and i'm sure they meant it. but i dont' think any of us can say it's ok to leave a 5yrold with an unconscious man who can't wake up (pissed or?) and who swears at and physically hurts small children.

i remember from the august thread that she has tried to phone WA once and hadn't gotten through because they were busy.

lets hope for her and her children's sake she does something.

in the interests of hamster's privacy and because she mentioned her husband and children have seen her on mn and the details of her story are quite identifiable can i suggest we start a new thread and don't mention this on it?

Good idea

has anyone got it in them to come up with a title and start a thread?

i feel wrung out