You are never alone with a SHINEY Cult

[bellavita]

.....that's it really, we all help each other in what we way can.

Weight Watchers, Dukan, Lord Ford etc....

Lots of cock healthy eating chat.

Alice he knows it all. We've talked through everything (one of the reasons this was going so well!).

Norma and SAF I understand what you're saying, it's just with what happened before and all his reassurances... I even asked him if he'd come off them a few months ago and he assured me he would never do that without talking to me first.

Mouse, I've texted him to let him know I'm taking some time to think and I'll be in touch when I'm ready to talk.

We've worked through stuff so much worse than this, so why is this hitting me so hard?

Alice if you say a perfectly normal word as if it's a wear word will that speed up DD's vocabulary?

*swear word, obviously

uno - add me to fb too if you want, am on mousey's list, initials LR.

how long has he been off the ADs then? On the one hand it seems like a small deceit, but given the past history it's rather selfish of him. And stopping them when you started your course feels, a touch, I dunno, if not manipulative, a bit well, russian roulettish...

completely agree with saf and mousey - take your time about moving etc, let the dust settle.

I'm fine Mouseface. I can't be doing with any more thread titles about weeping styes and bleeding piles, that's all.

Crunchy - it's hit you so hard because of how much you have worked through. That's exactly why.

You have come so far that a 'simple' thing, and I don't mean lying is a simple thing, just that you've survived worse, has really hit you hard.

And maybe, this time, you were really hoping that he wouldn't lie.

Fair enough to feel the way you do.

BOF - Eeewwww!! Why did I ask?

It was sabotage He did a lot of things that were designed to keep my life revolving around his. It only stopped when I stopped letting him (and it only started after the depression kicked in).

I'm feeling a lot calmer now.

Shame about my weeping piles and bleeding styes though...

I suppose given the past history, it feels like there's some unresolved issue with him, given he repeats the same pattern - sure a lot of people like to feel they manage without the ADs, but to lie as well, despite knowing how much it has upset you.

Has anybody heard from Mits? We usually text a few times a day but I haven't heard from her for over 24 hours. This isn't my usual name but if anybody "sees" her, please tell her a pony is worried about her. Thanks xx

ID and TC, he's not a bad man. Just a stupid, selfish one.

We've come a long way...

Hello

Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiney

Sorry Crunchie

Alice, I wish I could make it cooler for you.

I have got to sit through a end of year play tonight that DS2 is in (I am just not in the mood at all).

Yes, but he wouldn't be thinking that he was hurting me. He's gotten quite adept at convincing himself that he's doing what he wants for generous reasons. It's quite a skill. Wish I had it

YesBut - I have fb'd her today as was getting concerned as by her lack of posts since Saturday night when she went out.

Hello Bella it's ok, you've all cheered me up and the shock has subsided nicely.

Bella!!!!!!!!

Oh...thanks Mouseface. Am trying to remember exactly when I last heard from her. Think it was yesterday morning but my head isn't working well atm and I am having trouble remembering things.

Oooooh Mouse > that was niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice

Oh, sorry! Did not mean to intrude upon a snog...

YesBut - I shall let you off. This time.

Maybe she's working today and super busy? I was only hoping to hear from Mittz for an update on any drunk and disorderly behaviour from Saturday night!!