You are never alone with a SHINEY Cult

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.....that's it really, we all help each other in what we way can.

Weight Watchers, Dukan, Lord Ford etc....

Lots of cock healthy eating chat.

Double - he is an utter twat. Sorry, but his behaviour is shit. He knows that he has to pay for DD at the same time every fucking week.

He's short?! WTF???

Does he want to walk a day in your shoes?

Selfish pig.

I can't abide men like him. Sorry.

Will you be ok? Money wise? Seriously..... I worry about you. It's just not fair.

Want me to get him a head lock for you?

True - you are the most gorgeous of creatures.

Sorry to crash in like this but can I come and sob for a bit?

H just revealed he's been lying about something for months

He was going to move back in in 2 weeks.

I thought everything was better.

I'm a little bit in shock and my head hurts.

Could someone hold my hand for a bit? I think things might really be over. We're supposed to be going on holiday in a week and a half...

What just happened?!!

Double

Crunch I'm so sorry

Thank you

Last night I was so happy. We talked about how different things are now. We talked about our future...

crunchy I am so sorry he's let you down again, I have seen your earlier threads so know some of the background.

TC I guess I should have seen it coming, I'm an idiot still

I have seen your posts too, in Relationships

They're not good are they?

The threads I mean. They're all true, but they miss out all the good bits of a relationship.

We'd decided to give it one last go. One full on "make or break" give it our all.

He was lovely. Since April. Not "ill" anymore, and not trying to make excuses.

Don't think our relationship had ever been better.

And now I find out he's still lying to me.

It's not even what it is about really (not infifelity or anything like that), just the massive breach of trust that was only just rebuilding. And the fact that he knew the thing he'd done would scare me.

I guess I'll be moving soon then. Never wanted that job anyway.

What should I do? I've tried calling people but they're all at work.

I want someone to tell me I'm overreacting.

Maybe I am.

But he knew this would hurt me. So instead of not doing it, he did it and then lied.

I hate lying. I hate it.

idiot? of course not. Loyal and supportive. yes. in spades.

Thanks TC. Sorry this is so self-indulgent.

Crunchy - God, it's so not self-indulgent.

You've actually had a shock if you think about how you are feeling.

Yesterday, H was coming home. Back home to you. Now you have found that he has lied to you, deliberately by all accounts.

I have no idea what he's done but if you want to, I can talk on FB in more depth or I can call you?

Thanks Mouse. Expect a request.

Hmm, Radisson is coming up at £99 per room, room only. Which isn't too bad. Might ask when I'm there if there are any triple rooms at all. Thing is, if we can find places to get meals out and about then I'd happily do room only, it's coming up at £66pp which is reasonable, add in £12 for the spa facilities, so £78 each, plus food, plus treatments if anyone wants any (although, might see if people will get me spa gift vouchers as a birthday present, and see about getting the girls a voucher each as an early Christmas present). Actually, this could well be doable!

Just had some more strawberries and yoghurt. Why do I LOVE strawberries so much?? They're amazing, they're the one fresh fruit I really love to eat! Mmmmm, strawberries.

Oh Crunchy you are far from self-indulgent, it's an awful thing to be going through & as Mouse said it's a shock as well as a betrayal of your trust.

Thanks Norma. I can't really believe this. It's just so... pointless. Why would he do this?

He knew I'd have to find out at some point. He knew he could have been honest before and I wouldn't have liked it, but it would've been workable.

Crunchy - that is rubbish. I don't know the background, but i think you have to go with your gut instinct. If you feel this is it, then it is. The last thing you want is someone telling you you should stay with him for whatever reason. I am so sorry for you

LV - that's a fab deal!! Book it. I went to a spa with my very bestest friend near here, V posh and the day was only £79. That was without stay or food!!

Go for it.

Crunchy - back attcha. xx