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The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.

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AsWithGlad · 20/08/2026 15:44

Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very enthusiastic crew of gerbils, who enjoy doing this, and any curious menfolk are welcome at the Staunch Ally down the road.

Previous thread: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5564959-the-bluestocking-womens-pub-in-which-we-wait-excitedly-for-the-next-instalment-of-goseis-adventures

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PastaAllaNorma · 02/09/2026 21:32

I really love The Bluestocking, its regulars and its denizens 💋

When I'm feeling low you all pick me up and when I'm flagging you invigorate me. Thanks, you wonderful souls.

inkymoose · 02/09/2026 23:12

Boiledbeetle · 02/09/2026 18:34

Look at the earnest little gerbil faces.

So cute.

I'm hooked you know @MyrtleLion . At some point you have to turn it into a book and self publish it on Amazon so we can all buy a copy!

yes!

Also: honoured to appear in the story today @MyrtleLion 😍

inkymoose · 02/09/2026 23:21

PastaAllaNorma · 02/09/2026 21:32

I really love The Bluestocking, its regulars and its denizens 💋

When I'm feeling low you all pick me up and when I'm flagging you invigorate me. Thanks, you wonderful souls.

I am very sorry to hear about your painful hernia problem, Pasta. It must feel hopeless at times.

I hope a resolution can be found, and you won't have to suffer like this. I am sure there is something that will help, even if it's only our willingness to listen and send loving thoughts. Solidarity! You are not alone Flowers

MyrtleLion · 02/09/2026 23:49

Boiledbeetle · 02/09/2026 18:34

Look at the earnest little gerbil faces.

So cute.

I'm hooked you know @MyrtleLion . At some point you have to turn it into a book and self publish it on Amazon so we can all buy a copy!

I think this might be a plan. But the first half of Book One has so much obvious AI it needs a drastic rewrite. So I am reluctant to publish without the rewrite.

As time has gone by I have realised AI needs significantly more input and then editing to begin to sound human.

But mostly I’m publishing for my own enjoyment.

AsWithGlad · 03/09/2026 01:18

@PastaAllaNorma , I am so sorry and outraged really to read your situation.

I know nothing works for everyone, but can't the NHS offer you some practical help to lose weight which goes well beyond mere advice, if you would be happy with that? I understand there's some local body you can appeal to if you wouldn't normally qualify for something. Your medical situation is hardly usual and it sounds as if the NHS is partly to blame when the repair referral was lost.

I can go into more detail in a PM if that would be acceptable.

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AsWithGlad · 03/09/2026 01:29

Myrtle, I hope you and Mr Walrus had a good evening.

On Tuesday I made a casseroley thing for my tea, made from Quorn and vegetables. 5 of my 5 a day.
I was due to have what hadn't gone into the freezer on Wednesday, but - strangely enough with Bluestocking synchronicity - I had a fried egg (well, 2) this evening, instead, with tomatoes from a friend's garden. Hmmm.

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WearyAuldWumman · 03/09/2026 01:30

PastaAllaNorma · 02/09/2026 15:57

Sadly not, unless I lose yet another 20kg and the surgeon decides it's viable - which is increasingly unlikely because it's so big now

Essentially my c section scar opened up 14 years ago. They operated to put mesh across it, which came unattached at one side and did some more internal damage.
There was emergency surgery then when it strangulated and sections of my intestine started to die but within a year it had split again. Unfortunately that was during COVID and the referral to repair for lost. It keeps tearing further and further along and the hole in my stomach wall through which my guts can fall out is now about 8-10 cm across.

Hurts like a son of a bitch when the innards get stuck outside, if you see what I mean, but the consultant says it's not worth surgery because it will only open up again unless my BMI was a healthy weight. Which it's never even close to being.

Not ideal. And probably far too much information. Sorry.

I have a friend who was put on Mounjaro by the NHS in order to lose the necessary weight for a hernia repair - he's nearly there now.

I'm sorry that you're suffering this.

AsWithGlad · 03/09/2026 01:32

WearyAuldWumman · 03/09/2026 01:30

I have a friend who was put on Mounjaro by the NHS in order to lose the necessary weight for a hernia repair - he's nearly there now.

I'm sorry that you're suffering this.

That's indeed what I was thinking of, Weary, that or something surgical which is well away from the damaged areas.

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Chickadeeinme · 03/09/2026 01:57

I’ve been on the Wegovy pill since March and I’ve lost 30 pounds. I’ve got another 20 to go before I’m anywhere near a BMI of 25 ( and I won’t be there even then but I’m not far off going from obese to overweight).

Boiledbeetle · 03/09/2026 07:29

MyrtleLion · 02/09/2026 23:49

I think this might be a plan. But the first half of Book One has so much obvious AI it needs a drastic rewrite. So I am reluctant to publish without the rewrite.

As time has gone by I have realised AI needs significantly more input and then editing to begin to sound human.

But mostly I’m publishing for my own enjoyment.

We don't mind waiting for the book 😁

MarieDeGournay · 03/09/2026 11:27

Oh Pasta, that sounds awful, and I echo all the concern and sympathy of previous posters.

I'm glad that the Bluestocking variety of love and support works for you - a hug from a virtual Red Panda doesn't sound like much when you are in the throes of pain, but it's nice that it can have a comforting effect when the crisis is easing, so...

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
MarieDeGournay · 03/09/2026 11:29

Happy Anniversary Myrtle and Mr Walrus!
The restaurant by the river? Have a lovely celebration🍾🎉

MarieDeGournay · 03/09/2026 11:50

Speaking of Mr Walrus, this is a good time to salute his service to the Real Bluestocking [i.e. the model one which I made], when he challenged a man who was trying to get in and had him removed to the Staunch Ally where he belonged.
Thank you for your service, Mr WalrusSmile

[An explanation: I bought sets of animals to get little figures of as many Bluestockingers as I could for the model, and one set came with a walrus... which of course suggested a scenario with Myrtle's Mr Walrus and the Bluestocking😄The other model is from a trio of little cheap plastic figures that I bought just because they were so beautifully modelled, I painted them and they look super.]

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/09/2026 12:33

Happy anniversary, @MyrtleLion and Mr Walrus. 🥂🎉

WearyAuldWumman · 03/09/2026 14:04

Happy Anniversary to the Lion-Walruses!

NotAtMyAge · 03/09/2026 14:29

Happy anniversary, Myrtle and Mr Walrus. Have a splendid day.

Chickadeeinme · 03/09/2026 14:39

Happy anniversary from Mr and Mrs Chickadee :-)

Chersfrozenface · 03/09/2026 14:40

Happy anniversary to Myrtle and Mr Walrus!

RumNotRun · 03/09/2026 14:42

Happy anniversary Myrtle and Mr Walrus 🙂

EdithStourton · 03/09/2026 15:12

I hope that you and Mr Walrus are having a lovely day, Myrtle.

DeanElderberry · 03/09/2026 15:48

Happy Anniversary

The shrine fitted - the middle cupboards have absorbed the entire contents of the filing cabinet, so I can take that to the recycling yard, and now all I have to do is fill it with books. Also maybe paint the visible bit of back wall at the top.

No idea when Tiddles will resurface, but I gave her a light breakfast so she'll be hungry by 5.

I did not tell her that and intelligent, efficient and wise woman in the Bluestocking said that hiding in the bowels of the sofabed was a sensible and understandable course of action when faced with mennin, she doesn't need encouragement. Well, maybe just a little.

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
MarieDeGournay · 03/09/2026 16:47

DeanElderberry · 03/09/2026 15:48

Happy Anniversary

The shrine fitted - the middle cupboards have absorbed the entire contents of the filing cabinet, so I can take that to the recycling yard, and now all I have to do is fill it with books. Also maybe paint the visible bit of back wall at the top.

No idea when Tiddles will resurface, but I gave her a light breakfast so she'll be hungry by 5.

I did not tell her that and intelligent, efficient and wise woman in the Bluestocking said that hiding in the bowels of the sofabed was a sensible and understandable course of action when faced with mennin, she doesn't need encouragement. Well, maybe just a little.

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That's an impressive-looking piece of furniture, Deano, v nice indeed. And great that it can absorb so much stuff.

Hey I recognise those bunnywabbits over to the left, they are Sylvac rabbits, aren't they? Love them.

What's in the shrine? Is that a bubble-wrapped Child of Prague statue?

Poor Tids, all that disruption! but hopefully a good evening meal will make everything all right againSmile

DeanElderberry · 03/09/2026 16:57

Well spotted the Sylvac rabbits!

The shrine has a largish Sacred Heart statue front and centre (currently in another room awaiting dusting), smaller statues of the Child of Prague and St Therese, smaller again statues on a back shelf, a few holy pictures, a bottle of holy water, some blessed palm, a second class relic of Fr Charles of Mount Argus (there used to be a first class relic in it but it was given back to the monastery) and other odds and ends. Several small vases, one of which contains a bundle of religious medals. I keep meaning to make an inventory.

It is housed in what used to be my Aunt May's dolls' house, seized from her when she was 12 because she 'was a big girl now' and converted. She resented that for ever. Possibly done in 1932 for the Eucharistic Congress, certainly done to celebrate the family moving out of the tenements and into a house built by the Corpo.

RumNotRun · 03/09/2026 17:09

@DeanElderberry that bookcase is absolutely gorgeous! I have furniture envy.

Magpiecomplex · 03/09/2026 17:36

RumNotRun · 03/09/2026 17:09

@DeanElderberry that bookcase is absolutely gorgeous! I have furniture envy.

Love a good bookcase - you should see mine! It got a lot of comments during Teams and Zoom calls over lockdown. It badly needs tidying though, so I won't share a pic.

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