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The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.

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AsWithGlad · 20/08/2026 15:44

Welcome to The Bluestocking, the best (perhaps only) online women's pub. Nothing in the food or drink can harm you, everything is served by a very enthusiastic crew of gerbils, who enjoy doing this, and any curious menfolk are welcome at the Staunch Ally down the road.

Previous thread: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5564959-the-bluestocking-womens-pub-in-which-we-wait-excitedly-for-the-next-instalment-of-goseis-adventures

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PastaAllaNorma · 29/08/2026 18:11

My son's graduation was in that cathedral. They had an organist while they got things going, and she played Toccata and Fugue as her first piece. The entire congregation jumped out of their skins, it was fantastic.

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/08/2026 18:14

I wish I’d realised that was there when I visited Liverpool.

AngleofRepose · 29/08/2026 18:49

Gosie 34. Best picture yet in this adventure, I think!

AngleofRepose · 29/08/2026 18:49

PastaAllaNorma · 29/08/2026 18:11

My son's graduation was in that cathedral. They had an organist while they got things going, and she played Toccata and Fugue as her first piece. The entire congregation jumped out of their skins, it was fantastic.

That must have been really something!

PastaAllaNorma · 29/08/2026 20:50

AngleofRepose · 29/08/2026 18:49

That must have been really something!

It was such a highlight - an enormous pipe organ being played by a proper musician for us for about 45 minutes. I had shivers.

(Officially, OBVIOUSLY the best bit was the 26 seconds of DS2 walking across the stage to receive his degree. Obviously. But it was really the organ music)

DauntlessDamson · 29/08/2026 21:23

Everybody noticed me. I am a dragon.” Marvellous!😁

ETA: I'm really invested in this adventure. It reminds me of my visit to the Rosslyn Chapel and all the symbolism in the architecture there, although I was never into the conspiracy theories, following the Da Vinci Code.

ErrolTheDragon · 29/08/2026 23:09

A dragon as a means of using up unlabelled chutney is also excellent.

ChristmasStars · 30/08/2026 09:16

ErrolTheDragon · 29/08/2026 23:09

A dragon as a means of using up unlabelled chutney is also excellent.

As a lover of a great variety of chutneys I am wondering quite how dragony it is and whether I could just try a teensy bit on a little cracker.
Just venting my FOMO @MyrtleLion 😅

Swashbuckled · 30/08/2026 10:07

Just popping in to say I have friends visiting this bank holiday weekend and am mostly out doing visitor things.

Happy Sunday! 💙

MarieDeGournay · 30/08/2026 10:27

Oh Errol, i wish I had been there to see you take flight in the cathedral! what a wonderful sight that must have been. Now if the organist had been playing Bach's T&F at the same time - wow!

It's only recently via the Gosie episodes that I've realised how big you are, Errol - not quite fitting into rooms where everybody is gathered must be difficult at times Flowers But it obviously has its compensations, like taking several gerbils for joyrides on your backSmile

Have a a good weekend, Swash - it's so lovely to be in touch with you again, you were always in our thoughts, and it was a lovely surprise to see your galleon sailing up .. er what is the body of water outside the Bluey? 'Peak Reach', according to google mapsWink - again

MarieDeGournay · 30/08/2026 10:41

Liverpool - I've never been there, and all I knew about Liverpool Cathedral is that there are two of them, from the song
In my Liverpool home
Where we speak with an accent exceedingly rare
Where we've got a big statue exceedingly bare
If you want a cathedral, we've got one to spare,
In my Liverpool home

[I googled it: written by Peter McGovern, and the description of his death on Wiki was lovely
McGovern died in Trawsfynydd, North Wales, on 1 April 2006. He died in his sleep having watched Liverpool beat Manchester United on Match of The Day: "McGovern had had a perfect day at his holiday home in North Wales. He had seen Liverpool win, and he was delighted that Robbie Fowler had scored, as he had written a song for Fowler's wedding. He drank a couple of glasses of Guinness, completed the crossword and went to bed. He died in his sleep.'

'As virtuous men pass mildly away,
And whisper to their souls, to go'Smile

I always assumed that the Anglican cathedral was ancient, and the Catholic one was a recent upstart - in fact they were both built in the 20th century.
Every day a school day in the Bluestocking, it's only 10.40 and I've increased my knowledge of the cathedrals of Liverpool pretty much a hundredfold already!

The Anglican cathedral windows look stunning
Heritage Treasures Day - Liverpool Cathedral

Some of the ones in the Catholic cathedral are v interesting too, like the 'lantern' but I haven't looked at them in detail yet.

RumNotRun · 30/08/2026 10:45

I was reading about the women depicted in Liverpool Cathedral. I love Catherine Gladstone's entry on the wiki list.

The Bluestocking Pub, where we continue to read about gerbils nobly and bravely working undercover in the Fen.
AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 10:53

Bore da! Liverpool is one of those on my list of places to visit, along with Norwich and Durham, as I would like to see the cathedrals someday. Ridiculous that I haven't been yet! (but, then, I visited Ireland only for the first time a few years ago, and you can practically see it from my house)

Currently "planning" a trip to Tokyo instead.

Magpiecomplex · 30/08/2026 11:01

Morning all, and Happy National Beach Day. I will be celebrating this significant event by staying at home and doing laundry, since the younger Magpie came back from camp yesterday. I might occasionally stray over to the current thread about beautiful men, too. Although to be honest a good 50% of them are getting either "who?" or "NO!" reactions 😆 My vote goes to Harrison Ford, and has done for a very long time.

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:10

Magpiecomplex · 30/08/2026 11:01

Morning all, and Happy National Beach Day. I will be celebrating this significant event by staying at home and doing laundry, since the younger Magpie came back from camp yesterday. I might occasionally stray over to the current thread about beautiful men, too. Although to be honest a good 50% of them are getting either "who?" or "NO!" reactions 😆 My vote goes to Harrison Ford, and has done for a very long time.

That thread's been a lot of fun (and, although he's not my fav, I think the original OP pic of Paul Newman might have taken the biscuit over all the others, 600+ posts later notwithstanding).

Don't forget to contribute to the Other Thread, as I think the women need their recognition as well 😉

PastaAllaNorma · 30/08/2026 11:22

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:10

That thread's been a lot of fun (and, although he's not my fav, I think the original OP pic of Paul Newman might have taken the biscuit over all the others, 600+ posts later notwithstanding).

Don't forget to contribute to the Other Thread, as I think the women need their recognition as well 😉

Some of the younger ones are bland as all get out.

Paul Newman was more beautiful than Harrison Ford but Harrison was still my crush from age 11 onwards.

Richard Armitage being gay broke my heart for about 2 years, until I finally accepted he wasn't going to bump into me in the street, recognise we were soulmates and abandon both of our lives to run off together.

If that's not going to happen I don't care whether he's straight or gay.
(My very camp hairdresser was similarly heartbroken when Hugh Jackman left his wife "for another bloody woman! How is he not gay?! He's supposed to marry me!")

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:30

PastaAllaNorma · 30/08/2026 11:22

Some of the younger ones are bland as all get out.

Paul Newman was more beautiful than Harrison Ford but Harrison was still my crush from age 11 onwards.

Richard Armitage being gay broke my heart for about 2 years, until I finally accepted he wasn't going to bump into me in the street, recognise we were soulmates and abandon both of our lives to run off together.

If that's not going to happen I don't care whether he's straight or gay.
(My very camp hairdresser was similarly heartbroken when Hugh Jackman left his wife "for another bloody woman! How is he not gay?! He's supposed to marry me!")

I agree, I think the list has somewhat deteriorated since it started, both lists in fact. There's an odd conversation on the Women thread, comparing royal family members, when not one of them could hold a candle to Lauren Bacall or Hedy Lamarr, in my opinion.

Harrison Ford seems to be very popular. I lean still towards my mid-20s crushes, I guess (Eddie Vedder and Antonio Banderas), but most of them really pale in comparison to a lot of the very early film stars, I think.

(not to restart the whole thing here!)

Magpiecomplex · 30/08/2026 11:42

For sex appeal, give me a man with a twinkle in his eye every time. Those generally aren't the really beautiful men though.

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:47

Magpiecomplex · 30/08/2026 11:42

For sex appeal, give me a man with a twinkle in his eye every time. Those generally aren't the really beautiful men though.

Agreed. And confidence and a beautiful smile. That's really all it needs.

PastaAllaNorma · 30/08/2026 12:27

Angle, have you seen the series Shrinking on Apple TV? Harrison Ford is amazing in that.

Back home after 3 days at the Aged Ps, as Wemmick would say.

More crochet done, and more grim dieting with my eye firmly on the prize of Tuesday's knee appointment.

MyrtleLion · 30/08/2026 12:52

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:30

I agree, I think the list has somewhat deteriorated since it started, both lists in fact. There's an odd conversation on the Women thread, comparing royal family members, when not one of them could hold a candle to Lauren Bacall or Hedy Lamarr, in my opinion.

Harrison Ford seems to be very popular. I lean still towards my mid-20s crushes, I guess (Eddie Vedder and Antonio Banderas), but most of them really pale in comparison to a lot of the very early film stars, I think.

(not to restart the whole thing here!)

Hedy Lamarr also invented channel-hopping, which is the basis of WiFi. As she said, Any girl can look glamorous. All you have to do is stand still and look stupid.

From Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedy_Lamarr

At the beginning of World War II, along with composer George Antheil, Lamarr co-invented a radio guidance system for Allied torpedoes that used spread spectrum and frequency hopping technology to defeat the threat of radio jamming by the Axis powers. This approach, conceptualized as a "Secret Communication System", was intended to provide secure, jam-resistant communication for weapon guidance by spreading the signal across multiple frequencies. Similar technology was used in operational systems only beginning in 1962, which was well after World War II and three years after the expiry of the Lamarr–Antheil patent. Frequency hopping, which existed and was utilized before the Lamarr–Antheil patent, is a foundational technology for spread spectrum communications. Its principles are utilized for secure wireless networking, including Bluetooth and early versions of Wi-Fi, which use variants of spread spectrum to protect data from interception and interference.

Hedy Lamarr - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedy_Lamarr#cite_note-American_Scientist-10

MyrtleLion · 30/08/2026 12:57

AngleofRepose · 30/08/2026 11:47

Agreed. And confidence and a beautiful smile. That's really all it needs.

I've been laughed into bed by many ugly men.

Looks do not really matter to me, and my favourite good-looking men turned out to be gay: George Michael starting in his Older phase, and Michael Cashman, who I met several times, and it's such a shame he doesn't understand women's rights.

ChristmasStars · 30/08/2026 13:31

PastaAllaNorma · 30/08/2026 11:22

Some of the younger ones are bland as all get out.

Paul Newman was more beautiful than Harrison Ford but Harrison was still my crush from age 11 onwards.

Richard Armitage being gay broke my heart for about 2 years, until I finally accepted he wasn't going to bump into me in the street, recognise we were soulmates and abandon both of our lives to run off together.

If that's not going to happen I don't care whether he's straight or gay.
(My very camp hairdresser was similarly heartbroken when Hugh Jackman left his wife "for another bloody woman! How is he not gay?! He's supposed to marry me!")

Oh my word I could have written exactly what you did about Richard Armitage 🤣 ever since I first saw North and South!

Chickadeeinme · 30/08/2026 13:40

Harrison Ford has been my movie star crush for decades. Newman is gorgeous but just a bit too perfect. However, Hugh Jackman comes pretty close.

PastaAllaNorma · 30/08/2026 13:54

Has anyone seen Taylor Tomlinson's routine about seeing Hugh Jackman on Broadway? It creases me up.

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