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Can I be a feminist and not be fully pro-choice until term?

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Moonfishstar · 24/02/2024 19:03

As in to think there should be some restrictions on stopping a mother aborting their foetus very close to term if there is no reason other than the mother has decided not to proceed?

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DaffodilsAlready · 24/02/2024 20:33

Given that it is extremely difficult to get an abortion after 15 weeks in parts of the U.K., when abortion is still legal, I think the scenario of a woman at term suddenly deciding that she does not want a baby and will have an abortion and this would be provided is a red herring, to be honest.
https://news.stv.tv/scotland/women-and-teens-forced-to-have-abortions-in-england-due-to-neglect-from-nhs-health-boards-in-scotland

Women’s reproductive choices should not be taken for granted, and in my opinion, this also means genuine choice so that if a woman wishes to give birth and not have an abortion, welfare and benefits should be sufficient to allow her to do this, childcare should be available and affordable, and maternity provision should be properly financed. All of these things are more important than drawing lines in the sand about who is or who is not a feminist, depending on their beliefs around late term abortion.

Scots forced to travel to England for abortions due to 'lack of care'

An investigation has found that women are travelling 700 miles due to NHS boards not carrying out the procedure in Scotland.

https://news.stv.tv/scotland/women-and-teens-forced-to-have-abortions-in-england-due-to-neglect-from-nhs-health-boards-in-scotland

Boomboomshakeshaketheroom · 24/02/2024 20:33

boomingaround · 24/02/2024 20:30

Are people actually reading the OPs original post?? She asked about abortion close to term. That's not legal. It's an entirely different question to abortion at an early stage where the baby cannot survive outside of the womb. Aborting a full term baby is abhorrent but I don't think it's really a feminist issue by that point. Effectively the only way to do it would be to somehow kill the child inside the womb and then induce the mother to labour or use surgery to remove it. Surely no one is arguing that's a feminist position to support. It feels disgusting to even type.

Perhaps you should've read the thread, that is exactly what people are arguing for.

LauderSyme · 24/02/2024 20:35

Itsmeamandaberry · 24/02/2024 19:53

You are obviously not pro choice if you are putting a limit on women's choices.

Please explain how a very late term abortion for any reasons other than medical, is not, in fact, infanticide?

Abortion doesn't always involve ending the life of the foetus inside the womb, but does involve taking it out. Surely if you 'take out' a late term foetus it will be breathing? You would have to end it's life outside the womb. Or have I got this wrong?

SlumberDearMaid · 24/02/2024 20:35

FGS, women don’t have abortions at 39 weeks, just for the craic.

However, if a woman is having one then, just for shits and giggles, I am thinking it’s probably best for everyone if she does go ahead with it? What good comes from forcing a woman to have a child? Surely there are serious capability / mental health / other issues at play that mean she won’t be a good mother to that baby.

Either way, it could not be less to do with me, if I tried.

So I will butt out and let the woman make the best decision for her. Suggest you do too, OP.

WhereIsBebèsChambre · 24/02/2024 20:39

@SlumberDearMaid so if a woman wants to have a abortion for 'shits and giggles' she can have it?

HBGKC · 24/02/2024 20:40

itsachange2024 · 24/02/2024 19:41

Sorry the max legal time is 24 weeks after that it's illegal in the uk unless there is a severe threat to the Mothers life or very severe disability for the child.

Nope - unless you regard club foot and cleft palate as 'very severe disabilities':

amp.theguardian.com/world/2020/may/28/mps-bring-bill-to-ban-late-abortions-for-cleft-lip-cleft-palate-and-club-foot

I'm still trying to establish whether abortions up to full-term are still permitted in the UK for these reasons.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 24/02/2024 20:42

PuttingDownRoots · 24/02/2024 19:07

I am on board with the "early as possible, late as necessary" theory.

I believe it would take a lot of desperation to abort a term foetus. I doubt itvwould ever happen. But if a woman honestly felt it was necessary... I can't even begin to imagine why they would that way. So is it right to judge them?

Being a woman, even a pregnant woman, is a get out to avoid any criticism.

I personally think the "late as necessary" trope is more helpful to anti-abortion campaigners.

DrSpartacular · 24/02/2024 20:46

Those talking about abortion being legal, worth remembering that in the UK (except NI), abortion so still illegal. The 1967 Act enabled exceptions, it did not legalise abortion.

I'm interested to hear from those of you who think my abortion views are abhorrent, and who also believe that the existing law is correct - how do you reconcile believing that abortion to term is infanticide, but not for disabled foetuses/babies (who can be aborted to term)?

ZiriForGood · 24/02/2024 20:47

It is totally possible to be a feminist and be a bit uncomfortable or unclear about the specific subject of very late abortions.

I understand "as late as necessary" as protection from artificial time limits, like that extra pressure when mothers/parents get bad news in later tests.

blushroses6 · 24/02/2024 20:48

There is no point arguing with people so misogynistic and dense who seriously suggest that women actually have abortions at 40 weeks. I’d love to see the actual figures on that. Also, these people must have such perfect lives untouched by reality, the idea that any woman should be forced to carry a seriously disabled/poorly child to term so they can suffer for a few hours/days before dying is evil. A lot of serious issues are not spotted until the 20 week scan, which is often not carried out till 21 weeks+, and then further tests are then carried out. These are traumatic, heartbreaking experiences and not something women do out of choice because they don’t fancy being pregnant anymore.

FridayForever · 24/02/2024 20:48

But the shits and giggles point, wouldn't that apply to a newborn as well? If the mother wanted to smother her newborn for shits a giggles, are you saying it'd be better all round if she did? If not, why does it make a difference if that baby is 1.hour before birth rather than one hour after birth? It's not OK to kill viable babies, though it's different if they die as a side effect of inducing the baby when the woman doesn't wish to be pregnant. In my mind anyway.

HBGKC · 24/02/2024 20:48

Quote from the Guardian article I quoted upthread:

“On the one hand, medical professionals were reassuring me that this was a minor birth defect that could be easily corrected, yet on the other, I was being offered an abortion after the usual 24-week cut-off point as though my child had a severe and life-altering disability.”

Tarmacadamia · 24/02/2024 20:49

sprigatito · 24/02/2024 19:11

@ZebraPensAreLife what you're describing is forced birth. It's anathema to any feminist.

But the baby has to come out anyway...

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 24/02/2024 20:50

DaffodilsAlready · 24/02/2024 20:33

Given that it is extremely difficult to get an abortion after 15 weeks in parts of the U.K., when abortion is still legal, I think the scenario of a woman at term suddenly deciding that she does not want a baby and will have an abortion and this would be provided is a red herring, to be honest.
https://news.stv.tv/scotland/women-and-teens-forced-to-have-abortions-in-england-due-to-neglect-from-nhs-health-boards-in-scotland

Women’s reproductive choices should not be taken for granted, and in my opinion, this also means genuine choice so that if a woman wishes to give birth and not have an abortion, welfare and benefits should be sufficient to allow her to do this, childcare should be available and affordable, and maternity provision should be properly financed. All of these things are more important than drawing lines in the sand about who is or who is not a feminist, depending on their beliefs around late term abortion.

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Well quite. I'm not clear what the reason for this is. I don't believe it's underfunding.

Whether it's a lack of skills, or willingness to participate or a hangover from when the SNP pandered to the working class Catholic vote to woo them from Labour, so the current administration simply don't care, I don't know.

WhereIsBebèsChambre · 24/02/2024 20:51

blushroses6 · 24/02/2024 20:48

There is no point arguing with people so misogynistic and dense who seriously suggest that women actually have abortions at 40 weeks. I’d love to see the actual figures on that. Also, these people must have such perfect lives untouched by reality, the idea that any woman should be forced to carry a seriously disabled/poorly child to term so they can suffer for a few hours/days before dying is evil. A lot of serious issues are not spotted until the 20 week scan, which is often not carried out till 21 weeks+, and then further tests are then carried out. These are traumatic, heartbreaking experiences and not something women do out of choice because they don’t fancy being pregnant anymore.

But people aren't saying its just for health reasons, it's for whatever the mother wants up to any stage of gestation as long as the cords still attached

dammit88 · 24/02/2024 20:52

I agree with you OP.

And it does actually happen, late in pregnancy, for things such as missing limbs, or cleft lip - it's rare, but it does happen.

Babyboomtastic · 24/02/2024 20:52

LauderSyme · 24/02/2024 20:35

Please explain how a very late term abortion for any reasons other than medical, is not, in fact, infanticide?

Abortion doesn't always involve ending the life of the foetus inside the womb, but does involve taking it out. Surely if you 'take out' a late term foetus it will be breathing? You would have to end it's life outside the womb. Or have I got this wrong?

No, you kill it before it exits or it would be murder.

At about 20ish weeks I believe that's done by dismemberment and then removing the parts. Later it's done by giving the fetus a lethal injection in the womb.

For medical cases where the baby would die at/shortly after birth sometimes labour can be induced and then nature takes it's course when baby is born. That's more bringing forward the inevitable though.

Apart from severe disability, incompatibility with life or where is necessary to save the life of the mother, I don't agree with abortion past 16w personally. I very much consider myself a feminist and if people have a problem with that, I don't really care tbh.

HellPMe · 24/02/2024 20:55

HemlockSoup · 24/02/2024 19:13

That's as anti-feminist as it gets.

What if the baby was a female?

HBGKC · 24/02/2024 20:55

DrSpartacular · 24/02/2024 20:46

Those talking about abortion being legal, worth remembering that in the UK (except NI), abortion so still illegal. The 1967 Act enabled exceptions, it did not legalise abortion.

I'm interested to hear from those of you who think my abortion views are abhorrent, and who also believe that the existing law is correct - how do you reconcile believing that abortion to term is infanticide, but not for disabled foetuses/babies (who can be aborted to term)?

WRT your second paragraph - I agree that the only logical and philosophically consistent positions are:

A) abortion up to full-term on maternal request for any/all/no reason (based on female autonomy trumping everything else)

and

B) no abortion at any stage of gestation, for any reason.

christinarossetti19 · 24/02/2024 20:56

I tend to think that reproductive autonomy is the cornerstone of feminism.

On a personal basis, women can decide they won't abort at all/under particular circumstances. It become antithetical with feminism when they try to control or influence other women's actions.

DrSpartacular · 24/02/2024 20:57

At about 20ish weeks I believe that's done by dismemberment and then removing the parts. Later it's done by giving the fetus a lethal injection in the womb.

There is no dismemberment of limbs FFS, this is the sort of crap spouted by anti-abortion campaigners. Perpetuating this myth is incredibly damaging for women who choose to terminate much wanted pregnancies for medical reasons.

christinarossetti19 · 24/02/2024 20:57

HBGKC I agree with A. Abortion should be framed by women's health care, not anyone else's 'rights' or criminalisation.

DrSpartacular · 24/02/2024 20:58

HBGKC · 24/02/2024 20:55

WRT your second paragraph - I agree that the only logical and philosophically consistent positions are:

A) abortion up to full-term on maternal request for any/all/no reason (based on female autonomy trumping everything else)

and

B) no abortion at any stage of gestation, for any reason.

Thank you, yes, those are the only logical positions. Anything else is inconsistent nonsense.

GrumpyPanda · 24/02/2024 20:58

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 24/02/2024 19:09

Where is that legal?

Canada I believe. And surprise, surprise - the percentage of third trimester abortions doesn't differ from that of other, more restrictive countries, because - surprise - turns out women really don't have them done for shit and giggles.

So OP can fuck right off with her misogynist myth-making.

christinarossetti19 · 24/02/2024 20:59

DrSparticular after 20/21 weeks, the fetus is given injection to stop the heartbeat. The Royal College of Obs and Gyne are clear that this is because a live foetus is incompatible with the intention of abortion.