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Embarrassednamechangeadoddle · 16/09/2023 21:48

“I don't and will not, support trial by media because I think it's dangerous and could happen to anyone. Innocent or guilty.”

^Is part of the reason for having a “free” media so that they can investigate and hold people in power to account. I don’t believe that they do that particularly well. However if someone with a lot of money and influence, who is clear they will take legal action against people, is doing wrong maybe people don’t feel they can go to the police. I suppose the journalist gather testimony from a wide range of women so they have a rock solid evidence and would find it easier to take him on than individual women going to the police/

HoldOnMiGenna · 16/09/2023 21:53

People equating sex addiction with ' wanting a lot of sex" are dim.

Promiscuity or even wanting a lot of sex is different from the utter entitlement that sex addicts have for sex.
I don't know why the dots are so hard to join between a man having sex at any cost and him being a sex offender. Being a sex addict nullifies the act of sex being about more than the needs of the sex addict who is having sex, doesn't it?
That's completely different from being a Happy Slut( of any sex).

Alcemeg · 16/09/2023 21:54

CornishGem1975 · 16/09/2023 21:39

@Crikeyalmighty That was my thought. Surely this has shot any chance of an actual trial out of the water?

I worry about this too.

DontBeAPrickDarren · 16/09/2023 21:55

I think (not watched the programme but have read the article) that most/all the women had previously had consensual sexual relationships with Brand which would make the prospect of a criminal prosecution even slimmer.

Mulhollandmagoo · 16/09/2023 21:55

Upsizer · 16/09/2023 16:44

Agree - it’s entirely unsurprising. Sex addict is sex addict.

Alan Titchmarsh would have raised some eyebrows but not this.

There are many, many sex addicts in the world who don't rape women.

BarleySugars · 16/09/2023 21:58

The saville link is interesting because they both have a similar way of responding to interviews now i think about it. A slightly odd, deliberately confusing florid answer that isnt really an answer and usually if pressed, some kind of 'cheeky stunt' to distract. I can see brand hiding behind his spirituality as JS his behind charity work too.

Yuck.

Whoiscomingtosaveyou · 16/09/2023 22:04

It’s so disturbing to listen to, but as others have said, how will he ever go to trial now? Juries are instructed not to read media reports when a trial is taking place for fear of prejudice, and this is all out in public domain.

IronNeonClasp · 16/09/2023 22:09

Lest not forget this man has a HUGE sobriety audience.

AgnesNaismith · 16/09/2023 22:14

So the one thing he got in trouble for/lost work because of was telling a man he’d slept with his granddaughter. Not actual rape.

Pretty much says everything about the world.

verdantverdure · 16/09/2023 22:16

BarleySugars · 16/09/2023 21:58

The saville link is interesting because they both have a similar way of responding to interviews now i think about it. A slightly odd, deliberately confusing florid answer that isnt really an answer and usually if pressed, some kind of 'cheeky stunt' to distract. I can see brand hiding behind his spirituality as JS his behind charity work too.

Yuck.

There was a lot of "it's just their word against his" during the Savile years too.

As there is in every rape case.

If only a newspaper and investigative TV programme had been able to do this regarding Savile.

Clymene · 16/09/2023 22:16

AgnesNaismith · 16/09/2023 22:14

So the one thing he got in trouble for/lost work because of was telling a man he’d slept with his granddaughter. Not actual rape.

Pretty much says everything about the world.

Exactly. He lost his job for upsetting a man that he'd defiled one of his possessions

ArabeIIaScott · 16/09/2023 22:22

AgnesNaismith · 16/09/2023 22:14

So the one thing he got in trouble for/lost work because of was telling a man he’d slept with his granddaughter. Not actual rape.

Pretty much says everything about the world.

Aye. He crossed a line when he upset a man.

Meanwhile, all those poor women and girls ...

WeaselCheeks · 16/09/2023 22:25

DontBeAPrickDarren · 16/09/2023 20:43

A big old lurch into the conspiracy space would be quite helpful for someone who was concerned they might one day soon be “cancelled” and need to shout “witch-hunt”.

Funnily enough, there was a Reddit post from 7 months ago saying that the reason Brand had done a political shift and started courting the right was because he wanted support when the allegations started coming out.

Kind of surprised at "Why didn't they go to the police?", or "Why haven't the police done anything?" comments. Ian Watkins (former singer of thelostprophets, paedophile) was reported to the police multiple times for his inclinations by his ex, over four years, and they did... nothing.

They accused his ex of being a bitter ex targeting a famous man. They then charged her with possessing child abuse images, which she'd been gathering as evidence to try and get the police to believe her. She was eventually cleared, and he plead guilty to the attempted rape of a baby. But everyone knew his reputation, there were loads of posts on music boards about how young female fans should be kept away from him, as he liked to invite 13/14 year olds backstage to abuse them.

So yeah, I'm entirely unsurprised by the lack of police involvement.

ArabeIIaScott · 16/09/2023 22:29

klhfd · 16/09/2023 18:43

The biggest story here (though not surprising) is the fact it was an "open secret" that's what needs exposing, this is what we're seeing with This Morning, Me Too, policing, and the hospital story this week; it's the way systematic misogyny and the abuse of women is being accepted and covered up.

For that, I'm not worried about the trial by media aspect, from the article it looks incredibly well researched and backed up. Hopefully he will be taken to court, but the focus should be around why this continues to be condoned and covered up across all sectors.

Yes.

I'm worried about the possible response - bearing in mind the horrific circus built around Johnny Depp.

I hope all of the women and girls who spoke to the press are okay, and have lots of support around them.

Upsizer · 16/09/2023 22:47

Mulhollandmagoo · 16/09/2023 21:55

There are many, many sex addicts in the world who don't rape women.

I doubt there are many sex addicts who are massively powerful and famous, feted for being drug and sex addicts, still given prime time space - who don’t utterly abuse that position by raping and abusing women.

How can this surprise anyone? Brand was very open about who he was!

verdantverdure · 16/09/2023 22:50

I'm assuming those defending Russell Brand are rapists themselves to be honest.

I don't know why you'd side with a rapist otherwise.

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/09/2023 23:48

Imagine if your H was accused of something and was possibly innocent, possibly guilty - but had been named and shamed in all your local papers and Facebook groups before any trial. The chances of a fair trial would be nil

The chances of a fair trial are nil. Because even with admissions, videos and evidence, men get off. And thick idiots say, "they were found innocent, she must have been lying". No they bloody weren't. They were found not guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. And a reasonable doubt in rape cases appears to be solely because a man says he didn't do it, or didn't mean to do it, or know that failing to get consent is rape, or her being unconscious isn't consent, or thinking that her saying no was a fun game, or knowing that women are actually supposed to enjoy sex, or she was wearing a thong, or he tripped and fell over into her vagina.

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Exactly this, the chance of him going to prison for these crimes are pretty slim. However his career is pretty much over. That is the punishment.

DontBeAPrickDarren · 17/09/2023 00:03

His career, such as it is, definitely isn’t over. He already paints himself as a renegade “outsider”. This just feeds into that. Without a conviction he’ll keep posting videos.

AliciaLime · 17/09/2023 00:07

mids2019 · 16/09/2023 19:00

Yes a new Andrew Tate. Lots of 'deep state trying to quiet him' type tweets at the moment. Instant backing from GB news.

I am worried he is going to not fall from grace

People are so thick they actually see these allegations as justification of his guru status. Men can literally do no wrong.

Alstroemeria123 · 17/09/2023 00:21

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/09/2023 23:48

Imagine if your H was accused of something and was possibly innocent, possibly guilty - but had been named and shamed in all your local papers and Facebook groups before any trial. The chances of a fair trial would be nil

The chances of a fair trial are nil. Because even with admissions, videos and evidence, men get off. And thick idiots say, "they were found innocent, she must have been lying". No they bloody weren't. They were found not guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. And a reasonable doubt in rape cases appears to be solely because a man says he didn't do it, or didn't mean to do it, or know that failing to get consent is rape, or her being unconscious isn't consent, or thinking that her saying no was a fun game, or knowing that women are actually supposed to enjoy sex, or she was wearing a thong, or he tripped and fell over into her vagina.

Completely agree with all of this.

The other problem with convicting a man for rape is that in the vast majority of cases it comes down to “woman says sex wasn’t consensual; man says it was”. And I think we all know who is more likely to be believed by a jury or in court - it isn’t the woman, is it? So rapists get away with it.

allmyliesaretrue · 17/09/2023 00:36

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 16/09/2023 17:08

Rape isn't sex though. Rape is a crime of power and control, exerted by one person against another. Sex is a consensual act between two adults.

Being a sex addict doesn't mean someone is naturally going to be a rapist.

It does up the ante for proclivity though?

QueenBitch666 · 17/09/2023 00:46

chosenone · 16/09/2023 17:06

I remember’talking’ to him on here! Years ago he came and did an AMA or Q and A whatever! I’d loved him for years, read all his books, been to see him live, but it always niggled me that he’s used women as a commodity! I asked if he was a mysoginist and he pretty much said he was ‘a product of his time’ and a bit immature and that lead to sex addiction but that he fully respected women 😢. We’ll fuck you Russell

Unfortunate typo under the circumstances

Clymene · 17/09/2023 00:53

I think rape is both. Saying that it isn't about sex, it's about power is a lie.

Rapist motivations are not all the say.

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