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Why are there no violent femcels?

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Laneyy · 14/11/2022 11:39

I was watching a documentary about incels last night. It was quite scary how entitled some men feel entitled to sex of course with attractive women like they see on porn. They hammer their faces talk about killing and raping women. I think porn has a lot to answer for the rise in incels, they can't be bothered going out and talking to actual women. Just furiously wanking to women on screen..

Men and women are different it's easy for a female to get a meaningless shag which will probably be terrible but a meaningful relationship can be more difficult. I was pondering many women end up in dead end relationships ,we have a fertility time limit. Many men will waste a woman's time saying later not now until she's no longer fertile taking her chance to have biological children. Women don't then go on a murderous rampage.

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MovinGroovinBarbie · 18/06/2023 23:38

caringcarer · 18/06/2023 02:51

There are violent females. Have you ever read about females who cut their partners penises off? Also what about the nurse who killed the newborn babies? I think there are far less violent females but they do exist. Just not so many of them.

I'm sure I remember Sharon Osbourne sniggering about some guy getting his dick chopped off. I remember thinking people wouldn't be laughing about a bloke sexually mutilating his partner.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 24/06/2023 17:32

I remember hearing it was a woman who originally came up with the term incel to describe herself. I think Reply All did a podcast ep on her. She was at a very unhappy point in her life and felt lonely. She has met a woman and is in a happy relationship, she’s absolutely appalled at what incels are now.

There are plenty of women out there who are celibate not by choice for various reasons, health issues, stuck in sexless marriages etc. The impression that all women no matter how attractive will be able to get sex from somewhere isn’t necessarily the case, women still get turned down by men and the logistics of no strings casual hook ups aren’t especially safe for women.

Xeren · 04/07/2023 22:03

Dalekjastninerels · 14/11/2022 16:22

I think female incels are more likely to turn inward and think they are ugly and it is their fault for not having a tiny waist or perfect face or whatever else- so it is their fault. Men only want beautiful women and they feel worthless for not looking perfect. On the other hand men will have sex with anyone and how can you be so ugly no man will? So they turn the hatred inward.

Male incels are more likely to turn outward and blame women for rejecting them and be violent. Male incels feel entitled to sex and turn their hatred outward.

Just my two cents

This 100%

Xeren · 04/07/2023 22:05

SinisterBumFacedCat · 24/06/2023 17:32

I remember hearing it was a woman who originally came up with the term incel to describe herself. I think Reply All did a podcast ep on her. She was at a very unhappy point in her life and felt lonely. She has met a woman and is in a happy relationship, she’s absolutely appalled at what incels are now.

There are plenty of women out there who are celibate not by choice for various reasons, health issues, stuck in sexless marriages etc. The impression that all women no matter how attractive will be able to get sex from somewhere isn’t necessarily the case, women still get turned down by men and the logistics of no strings casual hook ups aren’t especially safe for women.

Absolutely! Female incels exist. And plenty of male incels would be able to have sex if they were willing to ‘lower their standards’ but they only want objectively very attractive women.

Dalekjastninerels · 07/07/2023 10:11

Xeren · 04/07/2023 22:03

This 100%

Yes; woman who is incel= what's wrong with me? Man who is incel= what's wrong with her?

JazbayGrapes · 08/07/2023 12:15

They do exist. Not in the same quantities, not the same circumstances, and mask their behavior better.

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