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A burden

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SassyAquaScroller · 01/07/2026 10:45

I don't want to be here anymore. I'm such a burden to everyone. I'm selfish, cold-hearted and lazy. not sure why i'm posting on here

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Friendsinahighplace · 01/07/2026 10:55

Are you alone?

PurpleLovecats · 01/07/2026 11:04

Can you call the Samaritans? Or text SHOUT?

HebeMumsnet · 01/07/2026 11:10

Hi there @SassyAquaScroller .

We know you'll get lots of support here on the mental health boards, but we did want to say that reaching out to someone in real life, whether a friend, family member or GP, would be a good idea, too. If you're worried about talking to someone in real life, there are also lots of phone numbers on our Mental Health Webguide that you can call for support and a listening ear.

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MeBeforeYouNever · 01/07/2026 11:16

You are not a burden or any of the other awful things you are telling yourself. That is depression talking.
Can you tell us a bit more about how you are feeling and what help you are getting atm?

SassyAquaScroller · 01/07/2026 11:36

I don't deserve help. Everyone has had enough of me

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SassyAquaScroller · 01/07/2026 11:44

Its not in my head. Its not depression. Husband has told me he has had enough of me. So yeh.

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MeBeforeYouNever · 01/07/2026 12:00

SassyAquaScroller · 01/07/2026 11:44

Its not in my head. Its not depression. Husband has told me he has had enough of me. So yeh.

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That doesn’t mean you have done anything wrong though. Why is he saying that? Does he treat you well usually?

MeBeforeYouNever · 01/07/2026 12:09

Just noticed you have started two threads on the same topic this morning. It would be more helpful to stick with one of them

SassyAquaScroller · 01/07/2026 12:18

I have asked for it to be deleted

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MeBeforeYouNever · 01/07/2026 14:44

Can you tell us about what is going on in your life and why your DH is treating you so unkindly?

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