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don’t want to be here anymore but don’t want to leave my kids

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helpmehelpme3847 · 16/09/2024 17:03

i have 3 kids under 4 and i feel really depressed. im burnt out touched out constantly overstimulated. the noise makes me feel so angry and then i shout and i don’t want to shout because i was raised by shouty parents and i hated it. and then the guilt eats me up and i just want to k1ll myself. im a shit parent i’m a shit wife i’m shit at everything i’m just shit full stop. i don’t want to be here but i don’t want to leave my kids behind i feel so trapped

RaeMumsnet · 16/09/2024 17:27

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