DP has just rung me, I asked him to get some nappies and baby milk and his visa card got refused - so thats it, no money, no credit. Will probably have to borrow from my mother (just spent the thirty pounds mothers day present from her on food for the week ). But she has just had a big rant at me saying that all the while she lends us cash DP wont sort himself out. ITs not like he is lazy, he works for himself, all the hours god sends, it is just that things are quiet and weve had no money coming in, so now she thinks DP is lazy. I'm waiting on tax credits and they are my final life line, god knows how long they will take to sort out - just sooo pissed off with it all. I fluctuate from being totally out of my head depressesd to being kind of ok to feeling totally manic and OTT. You would think me bi-polar but its just this financial roller coaster.
last week i had decided, right, thats it, im getting a job (was going to apply for class room assistant positions) and felt ok about things. Then we worked out the tax credit stuff and found out that after child care, you guessed it, id be worse off DP told me i would be better off getting a cleaning job and take DD with me (thats how much he doestn live in the real world!)
Sometimes i just wish i wouldnt wake up