Thanks WL mum. She was great but I was trying to kill time before GP and feeling very fragile. GP is a lovely man, values raport and knowing his patients over time keeping so my 6:30 appointment was actually after 7:30 and I was the last patient and wasn't out until 8pm. My husband though was very stressed that day not the most supportive. he did come to the GP, took some of my bags home then came to pick me up, but I'd have liked it if he stayed... I did have no alcohol and tidy and clean the house and walk the dog so I can't be annoyed with him. As a healthcare professional I hate it when people (usually elderly ladies say they don't want to waste my time). I drove into work today, felt too tired and spacy to work, more food made me sleepy not awake. Spoke to my psychartist and care co-ordiator today in the staffroom, concidered calling an obstiatrician but they my ask me to travel to the acute hospital and I just need to go home and sleep. The problem is I'm very aware of how privilged I am and feel guilty and depressed from increased meds. I have too much support, didn't know who to call! GP said he was amazed I'm ok with 5 hours of work a day and said I was doing very well and much better than when I saw him in October. That was great to hear as most other health professionals I either find they patronise me or panic me. I actually thought the other night a bit of post-natal psychosis could be quite fun (maybe for me but not for people around me). I was just imaginning the reaction of the midwife and the look on her face if I said that...I'm sure it would not go down well. I'm just feeling really out of touch with reality today, but not as bad as on setraline...I am happy that a doctor agrees with me about decreasing the meds as they are probally one of my biggest anxiety right now. In the grand scheme of things though, I've stopped worrying so much about normal pregancy things like caffine and sugar am getting better at listing to my instincts. This baby is going to be really hyper at this rate, but I don't agree with all the theories about ADHD and aspergers. I think it's mostly genetic and high functioning autism runs in my family, used to be called "gifted" or "geek" so it's better to keep that postive spin. I'm actully keeping and using my diary better now. People don't realise that being dyslexic (for me anyway) means, more likly to have anxiety poor organisational skills and short term memory. I am lucky to have been brought up around computers, has enabled me to learn and develop without relying on rote learning but am scared about the power of the internet on huminity as an artifical intellegence, esspecially after stephen hawkins death. you just need to look at the effect trump can have on the masses using social media, and the research that is coming out about the effect it has on young minds. But that sounds paranoid...I got panicky in macdonalds, seeing all the toddlers and babies glued to screens. I like doing free online courses, particularly future learn. I deleated facebook off my phone the same day I started the meds so it was hard to tell if I was getting facebook withdrawrals or side effects when I felt more anxious the first day. Mumsnet is not healthy for me, but I'll make sure I keep it on small doses, not completly shut off, but wearn myself off, simular to how I do with caffine and sugar, the most addictive drugs I've used.
Anyway, WL, you should go for it, good news the other day about NHS pay rise, especially high for unqualified staff so should be easy to get into, not always easy but rewarding. There were lots of mature students on my course and mature students who come to radiography as a second carrer usually make the best radiographers and I'm good friends with a few as they have a better perspective and seem better and managing a work life balance. I am very impressed with those who retrain while caring for children. They also give me confidence in my professional knowledge and skills, allthough I did to begin with find it strange teaching people sometimes twice my age. I do love Guildford for it's music and pubs and I'd say now it's my hometown... but it's really not as amazing as outsiders seem to think it is, it's probably a slightly above average normal English town/ wannabe city, definitely not worth the house prices! A bit too busy for my liking too. Friends around my age are living their with their parents or renting a crappy room or flat as graduates working two jobs and volunteering because they love travelling and are trying to get financially stable. And I thought I was hard done by as an NHS radiographer with my hours pay and work pressure...