Easiest way to run away from home.

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Hi. Im 20 and with autisum which means i cant quite dress and wash myself . But i cant stay at home any longer. My parrents will always claim they not abuseive so i cant just get housing anymore. What do i do.

Hi op. I did not want to read and run. Are you saying that your parents are abusive? Is there anyone in real life that you trust and are able to talk to?

Do you have a social worker?

Oh OP It's you again, I thought it might be. how do you propose to live if you can't wash and dress? And aren't you at uni?

Billy - please see if you can get help through uni

I am at uni which doesnt help matters. I wish i wasn't then i could disapear one day and never come back. I dont know. I get told they are social accommodation to help but my parents will just presuade them i am not being abused so i will be classed as interntionaly homeless and not eligable.

My Uni wouldnt believe me. They ask my mum and she would persuade them im a fantasist. I really only see prison as a way out.

If you are at uni, how do you manage if you can't do self care? Do you have a carer/support during the day?

I have reported the thread - I don't think saying prison is the only way out is terribly rational

What I mean is you need specific help to get out of the situation

You need to speak to Adult Social Services.
Explain briefly that you have autism and your parents are abusing you and as to arrange a meeting with a social worker.
Write down examples of the abuse in advance.

I remember your previous threads btw. I really do think you should contact Social services

What are you studying at uni?

Pls contact social services

Im stuying Law.
Ill try and contact social services but im not able to get out of my my house and i just fell like disapearing. I totally hate my life at the moment. Im emotional child really in an adults body.

How are you studying law when your needs are so complex? I studied law for a couple of years and struggled tbh so far play

Because they not that complex. My parrent just havent shown me how to do them and now its too late to learn.

Just a thought, but you sound pretty intelligent and capable - are you sure you are not assuming you are less capable than you really are because that's what your parents have told you?

Try to contact social services if you possibly can, and tell them what you have told us.

And it's never too late to learn, I promise! If a thing can be done, someone can teach how

So do you see what they do when they are helping you wash or dress?

Silly question but if it's a case of not knowing how, can you google it?

Have you posted before OP about your lack of a social life and your parents getting in your way because of risky behaviour?

He has - and trying to organise a birthday meet up

Dressing i do but washing i really would struggle with. I cant hold a towel arround me or wash my hair. An hostel wouldnt work for me it only make me worse. I think i really need to somewhere where i can be formally looked after.

You have just said that you just haven't learned How to do these things - it makes a difference whether you need to be looked after or whether you could learn how to do the self care stuff as to how you would go about fixing things

It's not too late to learn. You need someone to help you, though. Can you talk to your tutor? If you could write it all down it might be easier? If we ask you questions and you try to answer them, would that help you get it all down?

Self care is NEVER too late to learn Billy.

If you were really serious about being able to get on without your parent's intervention you'd be putting the same amount of work as you do with your studies into yourself.

You are a logical being. The easiest way out of this is to apply the logic to yourself.