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thread in which the Mentally Normal sustain a stream of fascinating chat

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Mitchy1nge · 19/01/2015 09:00

and die of being cold

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Millie2013 · 19/01/2015 20:47

Was meant to be having a (phone) conversation with OH tonight re work shite, but I can't face it
I really don't help myself :/

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 20:54

Could you ring him now Millie?

Millie2013 · 19/01/2015 20:54

Oh and today's other self sabotage involves DTherapist and not making an appt (because she was unfluffy twice last week)

Millie2013 · 19/01/2015 20:55

I've just texted OH to say that DD is unsettled and I can't speak (she's not, she's snoring away)
So he's gone out for dinner. I'm an eejit!!

brightandbreezyNot · 19/01/2015 20:56

enpoid, your care plan reads like mine!

Mitchy1nge · 19/01/2015 20:58

rinkydink streaming device on the fritz just a few minutes from the end Angry can assume the Hungarian won

am I the only person not watching silent witness, is it worth a look on iplayer later? Is it about running?

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Enpoid · 19/01/2015 20:59

I vaguely remember telling them in my discharge appointment that, for my first few days in hospital, I'd been able, with a massive push of effort, to function in an almost normal way - getting up, eating food, going to groups, etc. - but that I had only been able to do that for the first few days and that once my energy reserves had been completely depleted I would no doubt revert to how I had been at home (much more apparently depressed).

I compared it to the way animals can appear to be far less ill than they really are when you take them to the vet. Everyone who has had a sick pet has had that experience where the animal perks up and pretends not to be ill when the vet is examining them, only to go back to how they were before, once you get them home, right?

Somehow, in my care plan, this has become, "Enpoid compares herself to when taking a pet to the vet to get better, where there is a change once treatment has begun, but feels this is not happening for her".

Head.

Desk.

I thought at the time they doctor had got the wrong end of the stick, and did attempt to clarify. I didn't realise they actually had hold of a different stick altogether Hmm Not sure if it's a language problem, a comprehension problem, a giving-a-shit problem, or what - I just know that nobody outside mental health ever manages to misunderstand my drift quite so profoundly as MH professionals do.

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 21:00

Yes it's about running.

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 21:02

I never watch crime dramas.

I think there is an all-purpose crisis plan, bright. It never tells people anything that isn't a bit... Well. The phrase "bleeding obvious" leaps to mind.

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 21:04

Tbf I've no idea if it's about running, although I suspect it's not.
I'm watching Undateables.

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 21:04

Millie, if you want them.

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 21:06

Millie contact her. Gawn!

Millie2013 · 19/01/2015 21:09

Thank you agsin, lovely people, I'm just being a tw*t!!

Ivytheterrible · 19/01/2015 21:41

My example of MH people misunderstanding my drift...

Me when inpatient "I'm so bored and down I wish someone would dance on the tables to amuse me"

Written in my notes "Ivy was feeling elated and told staff she wanted to dance on the table"
Hmm

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 21:46

That's not just the wrong end of the stick, and not even the wrong stick - that's not even a stick Grin

Ivytheterrible · 19/01/2015 21:49

And yet when you try and explain that's not what you said they say you are in denial

As you put it

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 21:51

Annoying in so many ways, too - firstly, it shows they weren't listening to your words, secondly, it shows they weren't paying attention to your affect, your non-verbal behaviours, your tone, etc., and thirdly, it could adversely affect your care to have a non-existent episode of elation recorded in your notes.

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 21:52

MH is the opposite of customer service - the customer patient is always wrong Wink

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 22:25

My contribution to the fascinating chat;
the ed assessment will be fine, won't it. Today has been a hideous mess of Abnormal Behaviours and I don't want to be like this any more.

Or, does anyone else want to go for me? It's mid morning. Thanks.

Mitchy1nge · 19/01/2015 22:36

I'll pretend to go with you, can do some form of chat beforehand/while you wait if that helps? You are brave and doing the right thing!

Am getting back on the Eat Normally (but about twenty times as much as normal people) thing tomorrow, starting again again.

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CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 22:40

Thanks. Appt is at 11.
Each attempt at normality today has led to my throat/oesophagus/whatever get more sore and more bloody but yet have still not managed cease. Eugh. Sad

Mitchy1nge · 19/01/2015 22:44

poor you :( is not very nice, some help with this is way overdue Flowers

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Enpoid · 19/01/2015 22:48

I'll be thinking of you if I'm awake at 11am. Oesophagus has been sore for a while now hasn't it?

CaulkheadUpNorth · 19/01/2015 22:52

No, well, a couple of days. Since Friday?Saturday? I wussed out of mentioning it at a&e and only bleeding when I vom (sorry for tmi). It's disgusting and I'm hoping the person tomorrow can give me the magic pills to make it all ok.

Enpoid · 19/01/2015 22:54

That seems ages to me; poor you Sad

Save some magic make-everything-better pills for me, won't you? Smile