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Not feeling like me anymore

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yabbs · 18/01/2006 17:23

Hi i hope someone can help i have a 15 month of son who i love so much but I just do feel the same anymore I am not the bubbly person I used to be. I am just someone wife or mum not me anymore I know it sounds selfish. I am just fed up with being uphappy I have been like this for a while I just dont like myself anymore.

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NASWM · 26/01/2006 19:12

Hi Yabbs. My day's not been great again. Hope you are okay. Let's check in tonommorw

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yabbs · 27/01/2006 13:20

Sorry to hear you were having a bad day yesterday let hope it a better one today. so far mine has been ok have been busy getting everything ready for my childminding inpection. Hope you day has been better today.

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NASWM · 27/01/2006 19:16

Have you had the childminding insepction yet? How did it go?? What else have you been up to?

I've been very busy these last few days and feel quite exhausted physically and mentally by it all really. Just want to flop in front of the tv tonight, but there is loads of clearing and tidying up to do etc.

I hope you have a good weekend. Does that mean your DH is around more? or does he work weekends too?

Keep smiling and stay in touch. NASWM

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yabbs · 28/01/2006 10:11

Hope you managed to get a relaxing night like you want NASWM? Yeah my dh is home at the weekend. Nope my inspection is not till the 6th of next month but just tring to sort the house out really we have decided to change the front room around so we will be moving lots of furiture. On thursday we were buying a few bits for the insepction like frist aid kit fire blankets that sort of thing plus I had loads of paper worker to get ready there are so many forms to fill in nightmare. Hope you are having a good day we both must keep smiling

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NASWM · 28/01/2006 17:57

Hi Yabbs

Sounds like you have been busy getting organised. I had a good night last night, thanks. Takeaway (Chinese new year, so a good excuse!) and a video (Ocean's 12, one of my favourites!) - although I only made half of the film before falling asleep. Busy day today shopping and doing other stuff. Then took my DSs to the park. It was freezing but was good for us all to get some fresh air.

I hope you have a good day tomorrow. Do you find that you feel much brighter at the weekend? and then start to feel sad again as Monday gets closer? or is your unhappiness unpredictable and up and down all the time? (I spend most of the week counting the days until the weekend, then when it gets here it never seems to be as good as I had hoped for!)

NASWM

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yabbs · 28/01/2006 20:14

Same here I spend the week waiting gfor the weekend but its never as you hoped. We are not up to much tomorrow I get a lie in too as my hd is home and he gets up with my little on at the weekend so I guess I look forward to that too. My sadness can't been up and down too it sometimes depends on the day I am having and if I got enough sleep. I can get very tearfull if I am sleepy. Glad to here you had a good night mine was good to. We managed to sort out the front room and clean the house from top to bottom.

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yabbs · 29/01/2006 18:53

Hi NASWM How has your day been?

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NASWM · 29/01/2006 21:23

Not bad thanks. Nothing significant really. How about you? What have you got planned to get you through the week? I've got a good friend coming over tomorrow afternoon. I'm looking forward to it.

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yabbs · 30/01/2006 08:07

Glad you have got your friend coming over it always nice to have some adult Conversation. Not up to much today but on tuesday and thursday I have to walk my little one to creche about a 20 min walk then I am off to the gym still trying to lose my baby weight. Hope you enjoy your day. Was thinking have you got a email address just thought would like to keep in contact that way its up to you?

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NASWM · 30/01/2006 09:43

Good morning yabbs. Yes, let's keep in touch by email. I dont want to post my email address on here (it's my name and dont want everyone to see it!). I can receive emails by CAT but haven't set up the new fee to send them myself yet. When I've got minute without the children at my feet (or my DH looking over my shoulder) I'll do that.

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yabbs · 30/01/2006 18:50

You cant have my email address then you can email me and you don't have to post your address is [email protected]. Today has been ok but they have change my Inspection till the following week so now that the 13th of feb nightmare and my little one has a real bad cold blees him. Hope you have had a good day?

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yabbs · 30/01/2006 18:51

sorry that should have been you can have my email adress I am having a blonde day today.

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NASWM · 30/01/2006 19:29

I've emailed you yabbs

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yabbs · 30/01/2006 19:43

Just emailed you back.

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