You're doing really well, @Skybluegreen. .
It's taken me more than two years to lose 26lbs. However, my grip strength has most definitely improved and my muscle and bone density are now at the top end of normal for an oldie.
I started doing 2kg side raises and I'm now up to 7kg. 7.5 for biceps curls and low rows. Not brilliant, but much better than where I started.
My shrugs and farmer's walk/carry are currently being done with two 18kg weights.
The bad news is that I'm still morbidly obese round the middle - the rest of me is normal. The last time I lost weight it took me 3 or 4 yrs to lose more than 4 stones. This time round, I had more than 5 to lose.
Like you, I much prefer weight training, though I'm having fun in the Musical Theatre Fitness class and there's no doubt that the Pilates and Stretch classes have been beneficial: I can now walk downstairs normally (in spite of my patella alta and arthritis). I obviously need to shove less food down my throat, though I have been trying to prioritise protein.
Last time round, I was on the Atkins' Diet and going to the gym two days a week. This time round I'm just cutting back and going to the gym as often as I can. Normally, I manage to get to two Active classes, two Senior Flex classes and Pilates - other classes when I can get booked. I use the apparatus in the gym between classes.
There's now a Musical Theatre fitness class followed by Stretch at another Fife Leisure gym 15 miles away and my membership is good for that too, so I've started to add that to my schedule.
Now that I'm old, it's harder going in one way...but my time is now my own so I might as well make the most of it.