That doesn't mean everyone in the country has to chose it. A majority of those who vote is totally fine
So had we had council election levels of voting (around 25% or less) and a majority either way, thats fine?
Surely vital decisions, decided by referendum, should have minimum levels of voting/majority, just as any local sports club would have to change its rules.
I would like it not being able to influence me but it seems that not only is that unrealistic but on here I get castigated for even wanting it. I want to be able to influence people I vote for/or against who are my representatives
Unfortunately for the you, the EU is a v powerful bloc, we are on the edge of it and it will now make decisions that we will have to abide by and act one, whether we like it or not but with zero influence, sooner or later it will form its own armed forces, have a foreign policy we may not like, introduce rules on goods traded that we will have to abide by, environmental regs and more directly, be able to attract business to the EU e.g. a Market of 450m vs one of 66m.
The way to change an organisation is from within.