Why is it considered to be a product of old age, racism or ignorance to want to keep governance and decision making as close to stakeholders as possible? The more local the power the more chance there is of using it to serve local, contextual issues and interests. The interests and issues of eg Poland and France are vastly different as are their economies and their values. Trade deals is one thing ever closer laws, economic policies, immigration policies etc are quite another
Its not but you should be accurate in your statements, the EU is very popular in most of the former Soviet bloc states - e.g. Poland has a 84% favourable rating of the EU.
The EU doesn't make laws in the UK, there are rules & minimum standards...but by enlarge we make all our own laws... health, social care, public services, transport, almost all taxation, education, defence, leisure.
How can you have a trade agreement without dispute resolution? safety standards? state subsidy (that allows a country to undercut another) rules on tariffs? product conformity?
The "ever closer union" you refer to is taken completely out of context, it refers to the "ever closer union of the peoples of europe"
We are taking/have taken a monumental backward step but its done now, we'll never rejoin.