whosafraid
You're right in what you say. I understand the general sense of unease that may have existed across GB during the troubles, the occasional bombscares, the odd bomb. I understand because I imagine its the general sense we all now have post 9/11 and the various attacks in major cities.
Living through the day-to-day experiences which, to all intents and purposes was a war, is a whole different thing. Events happened on your doorstep every day of your life, bombs, shootings, abductions, school was affected, transport was affected, community events were affected. You watched what you said and how you spoke. The school you attended, the clothes you wore, the sports you played, every little thing had the potential to identify you and put you at risk.
It shapes the very fabric of who you are, and who you become. It affects, among other things, your response to risk, your relationships, your mental health and your attitudes to authority. It gets under your skin in ways you will never be able to define or articulate. Who knows the extent to which we have become something different than we would otherwise have been.
It's not that people intend to sound as though they are undermining it by comparing it to their occasional memory of a bomb scare, its just that they have no other point of reference.
I would do anything I could to avoid shattering the GFA and bring our country to its knees like that again.