"You mean like a 60% turnout and a 50%+1 vote to win a majority? Bar passed."
I'd have said it would need to be decisive, like a 60% majority for leave or we remain.
We do have control of our borders, unemployed EU nationals can be sent home after 3 months. But complaining about EU nationals on benefits is poor, because they make up a smaller proportion of the JSA claimant count than they make up a proportion of the workforce, so they are under represented. YOu realise that there are lots of unemployed Brits in the EU too right?
"The doctors and nurses aren't missionaries of the EU coming here to heal our sick. Its a transaction that we PAY for"
But we don't pay for their training so this is of direct net benefit to us.
" which seems to cost us a lot more than we gain what with all the health tourism."
One of the most significant set of health tourists are British Ex pats who are no longer entitled to treatment here but are able to register with GPs and access treatment that way.
Believe me when I say, there aren't Polish, French, German or Hungarian people coming here deliberately to use our NHS, its a ridiculous ignorance of British people that they think that, of Eastern Europe especially, as having some sort of developing world standards of health care, I'd say health care in Poland was at least the equal, if not better, than NHS care.
"Yes some countries get more than they put in but the UK is NOT one of them."
When you work out our net contribution to the EU its probably about 7.2 bn with all the deductions. Its less than 1% of entire public spending or about 6% of the NHS budget. Its tiny.
Our exports to Poland alone equal £6 bn, our exports to the central European economies are £18bn and developing fast. So in terms of trade with Europe we get our entire gross contribution ( including rebate) back in trade with these economies, who are the newer ones i the EU. These figures also don't include profits repatriated from these countries through opportunities exploited through freedom of movement of capital, for example Tesco has a significant market share of the Polish Grocery market, which it wouldn't have been able to exploit without FOM of capital.
Then there are things like the 570bn Euro clearing business which is done in the UK, and is huge net benefit to the UK economy.
Your Tesco analogy is poor and shows a dramatic misunderstanding of the ways that the EU benefits us, and a clear ignorance of the finer points of international trade.