Mother I agree with you on lots of things. (RNMW I took as Remain no matter what? But I could be wrong)
Yes, no one expected the result. Including the leave voters. That doesnt however default into 'well you only voted expecting to lose, so didnt give it much thought really'. Not expecting the win, doesnt mean the question shouldnt have been asked, or that voters voted 'tactically' instead ....because they werent expecting to win... the question shouldnt have been asked etc etc
Yes, those in office didnt have a clue what to do. Yes, DC took an utterly despicable course of action. He resigned. He was paid by the peoples of this country to act as our Prime Minister, and the first sign that he may have to manage something a little bit 'hard', he was off. He turned his back on every single one of us. This has been the theme of our politicians for over a decade, that doing something a little bit hard, isnt in their job description. (By the way, thats my reason for liking TM, someone asked someone up thread. TM was fully aware of the implications of the role she was taking on, unlike others who saw a moments limelight, and she stepped up, with the full gravity of the situation squarely on her shoulders.)
Yes, the campaigns on both sides were shams. Should the question still have been asked? Yes.
I dont agree that the vast majority, havent a clue about the EU. The vast majority do. The vast majority have been living in a member state of the EU for over 20 years. Living in one. What other qualifications would you like to have seen to therefore make their view legitimate to you?
Re the continuos argument that a referendum shouldnt have been held in the first place, I (as I think youve twigged by now) fundamentally disagree. Not wishing to to and fro over an issue that I think will have to remain an agreement to disagree, can I ask you;
if Parliament, without any reference to their constituents and the peoples they represent, decided to quit the Europen Union claiming their right in a representative democracy gave them authority to do so, which it does, what would be your reaction to that be? I feel the very points that you make, that this was such a huge decision, that impacted so many on such a personal level, warranted asking the electorate directly. Anything short of asking the question, to then subsequently leave the EU via some other parliamentary process, would have been utterly unacceptable.