Well clearly, from posters this morning, their message is loud, clear, and implacable. Its remain. But I agree with you. It is a binary choice, its either all or nothing. Thats whats its always been.
The UK will get whatever the EU deign to give us. Thats 27 states, all deciding on how they wish the UK to be treated. Its ridiculous to even think that the UK, and the views of the UK people, will have any effect on the EUs position. The EU are clear. As with the referendum itself, membership of the EU is an all or nothing position.
The fact Norway for example, have negotiated some middle ground, is irrelevant, as it was during the campaign. Yes it was bandied about, but only for what it was. A country who had indeed found a 3rd option. Could the UK be able to consider a 3rd option? No. The EU then, as now, say no. If the EU had said pre-referendum, we'll discuss a Norway situation, now go vote, then Id agree that the electorate were indeed mislead. As it was the EU have been very very clear. There was/is no 3rd option. There was/is no 'Norway' offer. The referendum question was a binary one. In/Out, All or nothing.
I personally wish those, who have clearly settled here from other EU states, would take their anger to their home nations. Take their anger and demand that their home nation supports a 'soft brexit/middle ground/3rd option' or whatever view you wish to take, as its those 'home nations' who will be deciding, along with 26 other 'home nations', the plight of their re-settled citizens in the UK.
In the absence of your home nations stepping up, you are left with TM doing all she can to protect your interests. If you dont want her help. Then fine. If you dont want the UK to fight your corner, then fine.
But what I wont accept however, is views like this.
"I actually wish that, if brexit happens, you are harmed by it."
"Is it wrong to want the people who voted for this to suffer more than the rest of us?"
Well yes it is. Its a thought process that is utterly foreign to most british peoples. Its something we are having to learn to live with, that there are those living amongst us wishing us harm, though its still shocking to read it, so openly posted as acceptable, on a public forum.
Direct your anger in the right direction. Your home nation will decide your future as one of the 27 members of the 'club'.
There are of course options the EU cannot effect. You have the option to apply for british citizenship. That is the only thing the UK can guarantee you the right to. Apply for citizenship.
However, clearly from some posters here this morning, the thought of british citizenship is an anathema. If you dont wish to apply for british citizenship, what are you indeed demanding from the UK that is within their power to give you?