But we had a vote in the EU (bangs head on wall emoticon), we just didn't really pay attention to it
I dont think it was a vote in the sense I mean the way your framing it but lets say it was - and everyone missed it - why?
Because its over in the EU - removed - far away from whats happening here!
Lets face it, not hard to bury bad news here in the UK is it! How on earth are we supposed to keep abreast of UK politics as well as whats going on over there all the time, because they are sneaky.
They are known to float ideas and no one notices them - so suddenly they are policy. Thanks Mother for pointing out yet another problem with two layers of politics.
If people can't be bothered to engage with the political process and e.g write to their MP to express their views, then yes, they will get what the politicians think people want (or what the more self serving of them think will serve their and their party's interests
Personally I take as much interest as I can and am happy to and have fired off many emails when necessary to my local MP and to number 10.
Recent poll ( not that I set any store by them myself but I am led to believe many posters on here set great store by them) said more than two to one back TM on the EU.