Not completing misunderstanding Elements, but maybe altering a bit.
Ok, I do sound a bit like I am shrugging my shoulders. But I didn't mean to. What I was trying to say was that this sort of forum discussion make us all aware that we all have differing viewpoints, so in that respect they are enlightening, but they don't tend to change people's opinions, so become an endless back and forth that usually just leads to anger and frustration. People dig in a defend their viewpoint and it becomes even more 'them' and 'us' which is no good.
It's no surprise the Express is saying it's usual bollocks. Their job is to stir up extreme and polarised viewpoints to sell papers (as all papers do). If you object to these tactics, boycott the paper. If everyone did this, theydstop having an influence. People seem to love to be outraged, which is why these papers sell.
I think we would do better if we
1)kept the faith that we are still a decent society despite what is happening
2) acted from that starting point to discuss, campaign, pressurise, vote and so on but with an open mind
I know it sounds naive, but I don't know how else to express it.