What BacktoBasics2 said: It's only the Tuesday after the vote yet people seem to think a 40 year relationship with the EU can be sorted over a weekend. I don't know why people are panicking, it's been 4 days! When I left my marriage it took a year to sort everything out, it's the same with the EU, it's going to take time, planning and negotiation before things settle down. Why are people expecting it to happen in a week?
What would I have expected to happen?
Friday after the vote: shock, paralysis, reassuring sounds from the BoE, resignation of the Prime Minister (assuming he has no sense of duty or obligation. check)
Saturday, Sunday: Civil Servants and ministers running around behind the scenes putting together a plan, and doing some serious briefing of soon-to-be-ex Prime Minister. Said PM mostly is on the phone to EU and world leaders, apologising abjectly
Monday: the cabinet meeting from hell where the ministers go through the logic process that all the other remainers have been going through "can't we just ignore it?" "but what happens if we do?" "oh f**k". Swiftly followed by PM questions where well briefed soon-to-be-ex Prime Minister answers on script: "we will honour the referendum even though we hate the answer" and "I can't tell you what will happen because I'm buggering off to the after-dinner circuit"
Tuesday: PM goes to Brussels for the carpeting of his life.
And that's where we've got to. Seems pretty much what I'd expect. Real life doesn't work according to the 24 hour rolling news cycle.
What do I expect next?
Selection of new PM; I hope that there are just two candidates (BoJo, who I hope does not get it, and maybe May because I would really love to see two X chromosomes in charge of the next year or two, and those are probably the least bad ones realistically on offer) and that it goes swiftly to the Conservative party to vote on.
Behind the scenes: civil servants running around getting a schedule and versions of plans in place. I do not expect any of us to hear what they are doing until late September at the earliest (let the new PM work through them with their cabinet first)
Also mostly behind the scenes: task force of MPs joining in with the let's-make-a-plan thing. Not sure about having Letwin in charge of that (did I read that right), but there it is.
November or December: Article 50.
We all have to just slow down. The strength of emotion around the Brexit vote means that our expectations are unrealistic about how quickly it will be "resolved". I watched almost all of PMQs yesterday, and apart from the SNP MPs who I started fast forwarding (broken one-track record, sheesh), it was really helpful to see our elected representatives wrestling with similar questions to the ones posed all over the internet. And the message from the soon-to-be-ex Prime Minister was very clear, too. They (the Commons) have to respect the vote; there is a task force getting going on planning; and decisions on how actually to manage the exit are going to be down to the soon-to-be-ex Prime Minister's successor.