has anyone sent one child to private school and other children to state school? just curious really

[nailpolish]

not interested in reasons (be they personal) but just wondered what the children themselves thought

thanks

Sorry to hear about your sons Swedes. I think bullying (the sort that thankfully doesn't lead to huge psychological trauma in the bullied) is rather common. At the risk of sounding like someone who was sent to boarding school at the age of 2, it never did me any harm

PP - I would not beat yourself up too much. I think the fact that one child is being offered a scholarship that will not cost you much is a bit different to just choosing to send one child and not the others based on favouritism/ sex/ whatever. When they are older I think that they would see the rationale for your decision.

christie